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| Author: | Rune [ Wed Mar 03, 2010 4:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | [TROUBLE] Girl... |
Yeah, it's a girl I work with. Not a pretty picture. In the beginning, we liked each other, a lot. We talked, I teased her a bit, she teased me, I used to tickle her a bit, touch the area above her waist, rub her arm, and she would respond back. Sometimes she would indiscreetly rub her ass against my crotch. Times were good. ...work has a weird way of warping minds. As time passed, I learned of her attitude, and she learned of mine. She is an assertive, get-shit-done type of girl, and I'm the laid back, things-fall-into-place-eventually type guy. We tried to work with each other, and keep stuff going...worse came to worse, and now we pretty much hate each other. She still likes me, but it's a strained relationship. I flipped out on her already, yelled at her a couple of times for acting like a bitch, and almost had her go to HR and file charges (I can be an asshole. I don't give a flying fuck. If a girl acts out of control, I put her shit in place. Respect...). Everytime we see each other at work, after a while, we smile and start off good, but it evolves into painful tension. She has a boyfriend for 3 years, and that kid is a juvenile douchebag (He even stops by the store on occasion. I usually want to leap over the table and crack his skull in three pieces with my fist). The typical jerk. I'm no pussy either (I can destroy that kid to oblivion), but again, my honor prevented me from just inviting this girl for some food and fucking. Even if the guy is a douchebag, my own special Rune-Bushido code prevented me from making a move. At one point, she even grabbed my hand to go talk to her. But now, shit has hit the fan. I feel like a pussy now, because she's a better, faster worker than I am. She can get the technical aspects done at lightspeed, but she's scared to talk to customers. I am slow as fuck (ADD), and need more time to do the technicals, but I can sell salt to a slug, and FORCE the fucker to eat it. I've sold so many fucking suits and ties, it's not even funny. But this chick bro. I cannot tolerate girls more assertive than me. I feel like a fucking wuss, and even though she's seen me be insecure, she STILL manages to try and save the connection we have. So do I, but at the same time, I try to stay manly. I don't buck down to any girl, EVER. I am the fucking man, she is the woman. Sure, I'm sexist. W/E. But, results are all that matter. Don't give me the bullshit that it's over. It aint over till I say it's over. But, It's getting to a point where, work-wise, we cannot tolerate each other's presence. She hates my laid-backness, and I hate her assertiveness. What should I do? |
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