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Author:  pua3211 [ Fri Feb 26, 2010 10:01 am ]
Post subject:  FU - Detailed FR for Set on Dance Floor - Feedback please!
Here is my first FR and I would like some feedback of what I did right and wrong. Thanks all!

I went to the club tonight and overall had a great time. First off, on the floor I don't talk at all because it's too loud and I just try being very natural with minimal thinking. I arrived with :) seven HB7-8s pretty buzzed and as soon as I got there I danced in a circle with them for a song, grinded with some of them for a few songs, and spotted a good set and approached.
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The set was a 9 with two 6s so I went over and went straight for the 9, gently took her hips, and started grinding with her.
Is this alright? I don't really see how this can be done any differently on a very noisy dance floor. Feedback here please. :?:
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A couple songs later (about 4 min dancing) I noticed a pretty confident guy grinding with her friend; the guy was locked in, dancing with his back against the wall which I have never done before so I took note of this. After another song (6 min dancing) or so I could tell she was having fun but I needed to mix it up a bit so I took her over to the wall also (maybe 10 feet away) and locked in on the wall with my 9 also. The four of us danced like that for several more songs and (about 13 min dancing) her friend and the guy walked off together, reminding me to mix something up again, so I spun her around and grinded with her facing me with my back still on the wall. I thought everything was going great. We did that for a song or two and (15 min dancing) I spun her back around. Shortly after she just walked away.
What happened? Did spinning her back around lose her interest because we had already "been there, done that"? Possibly seen as de-escalation? Feedback here please. :?:
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Throughout the whole dance I would notice her reach to pull her rising skirt down and would pull it back down for her before she had the chance to. I feel like this helped build some trust and kept her comfortable. After about the 8 min mark I had her comfortable enough to let me run my hands all over her body. I didn’t attempt going for her boobs or between her legs, however whenever I ran my hands down her legs I would bring them back up going inwardly and often times would bring her skirt up a little as well. Whenever I did that I would follow it up by pulling it back down.
Comments on this please! :?:



How can I improve my dance floor game?



Thanks for the help everyone. This community is great!
Author:  Darkie [ Fri Feb 26, 2010 6:17 pm ]
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Good wrk man!!! Nxt time have more balls and take more chances. Gettin girls on the dance flr is alot easier than u think, and frm ur details looks like u ha this one but she left cuz u didn't make any further moves. If ur hands r runnin all over her and she accepts, that's execellent kino!! The only reason she adjusts the skirt bak dwn is cuz she dnt want the whole club lookin up her skirt. But nxt time if u bringin ur hands up along her legs/thigh slowly and discreetly rub the inner thighs and gently try to rub her thru her panties if u can. If she responds well, u good for the close!!! Check out gambler's stealth vids, perfect for ur type of situation. Better luck nxt time
Author:  Mr. LongBottom [ Fri Feb 26, 2010 7:52 pm ]
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Quote:
The set was a 9 with two 6s so I went over and went straight for the 9, gently took her hips, and started grinding with her.

Is this alright? I don't really see how this can be done any differently on a very noisy dance floor. Feedback here please.

Feedback:

Ok pua3211, this worked for you most likely because you had shown alot of Social proofing with the large group of girls you entered, hung, and danced with. I would imagine that if the 9 and two 6's had been there to see, they did...and the 9 saw the DHV you were putting off.

Most of the time though, approaching a girl straight on On the dancefloor is a big NONO. You always want to appear Cool, Confident, and Carefree (3 C's)...give out a "I'm just here to have some Fun and I Dont' Give A Fuuuuu" attitude. When innitiating a dance with a girl, you always want to make eye contact and keep your body angled so that she doesn't think your stalking her like Prey. From that point you go in smoothly(Not too slow or too fast that = Turn off for club girls), and yes the hand on the hips is OK.

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A couple songs later (about 4 min dancing) I noticed a pretty confident guy grinding with her friend; the guy was locked in, dancing with his back against the wall which I have never done before so I took note of this. After another song (6 min dancing) or so I could tell she was having fun but I needed to mix it up a bit so I took her over to the wall also (maybe 10 feet away) and locked in on the wall with my 9 also. The four of us danced like that for several more songs and (about 13 min dancing) her friend and the guy walked off together, reminding me to mix something up again, so I spun her around and grinded with her facing me with my back still on the wall. I thought everything was going great. We did that for a song or two and (15 min dancing) I spun her back around. Shortly after she just walked away.

What happened? Did spinning her back around lose her interest because we had already "been there, done that"? Possibly seen as de-escalation? Feedback here please.

Feedback:

I actually laughed when I read this, but not to make fun or laugh at you..but because I was reminded of a similar experience I had.

Dude, you had this one in the bag. Especially if she let you walk 10ft away from her freinds only to see you lean up against a wall and expect her to grind on you. She obviously found you attractive, and I hope you held her hand when you lead her to the wall. Anyways, the spinning her around to face you was EXCELLENT and fun for you and her....change things up and keep her guessing. Your only fault, which was your biggest, was not going in for a Kiss Close :/....which was a 100% possibility.

Next time, when you guys are face to face. Bring her closer to your eyes, touch her cheek against yours, or even press your forehead against hers. If she doesn't back away and keep looking at you, you'll notice her eyelids droop like if she was getting drowsy....thats a good thing: it means her brain is telling her she's about to experience a high amount of pleasure. And if you want to arouse her a little more, play with her and neg her a little with a "turn the other cheek thing if SHE tries to kiss you"- but be very carefull when using that....she could think you dissed her so be selective on who you use it on and if it feels ok to do.

Additional Comments:

Her putting your hands on her thighs and up her skirt were KILLER IOI's that a horny Computer Geek would have pre-maturely ejaculated on himself for...and sad thing is...he would have gotten laid.....so what does that say about you? BE A RISK TAKER when it comes to these situations...and given the fact that you were intoxicated on Alchohol makes me suggest you were a little nervous when dancing with the 9.....Alchohol loosens people up...and someone in that situation would have gone in for something.

But keep your head up champ, you've got good natural game...so next time...Do It Big :)


-LongBottom- OUT
Author:  The Jock [ Sun Feb 28, 2010 9:22 pm ]
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She pulled her skirt down?
Don't think you should have pulled it back up again, you were already past the trust point.

From what I've read I doubt it would have been too difficult to k-close as all the hard work was done. You probably just bottled it a little bit at the final hurdle.

After having her isolated etc and facing you, you probably could have just gone straight in. Next time try looking at her and see if she holds your gaze, she will probably lean in or tilt her head - green light.

if you don't get that or don't feel brave, lean in as if to k-close but whisper soemthing cheesy into her ear (doesn't matter what at this point - you are in). Make sure you are holding her by the side of the face, back of neck etc they love that.
You want to gauge her reaction of the lean in as a final check so to speak then:
Come back out again readjust then move in for it.
Author:  techprotools [ Mon Mar 01, 2010 4:01 pm ]
Post subject:  adv
“If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with success unexpected in common hours.”
Author:  pua3211 [ Wed Mar 03, 2010 5:43 pm ]
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No, as she would reach to pull her skirt down which continually would come up while dancing, I would pull it back down before she could because my hands were closer to there. That built trust.
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