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Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Feb 01, 2010 10:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Failed online #close. Manage to meet up.
Hey guys just to refreshen some memories.

I've been gaming an HB7.5 online for over 4 weeks now.

I tried a #close but she rejected(I expected that).

Now I made a post asking some opinions if I should give up on this and move on or keep sarging her.

Irony is,she'd actually told me where she works(a public library).

So I decided to pay her an unexpected visit today. Not a stalker type visit. More like I just happen to show up to do some book research.

Remember,we had a great vibe online for the first 3 weeks until I tried the failed #close.

To my surprise,this' how the meet went.

HB7.5:[She recognizes me first]Hey K-loc,you can say hi you know.

Me:Hey,now I recognize you(lol).

HB:So what you doing here?

Me:You're being nosey righ now but you can't help it[we laugh]. Im doing some research.

HB[playfully grabs my paper]let me see.

Me:No,stop it. hand off.Wow you don't look that bad in person. I do wish you were bigger though-I have a thing for bbw(lol)[False disqualify].

HB:I like your eyes though.

HB:I like to see with without your hat[in my facebook pic,I had a cowboy hat on which I didn't have on now].

Me:Yea,I get that a lot[I short circuited her in a good way with that alpha/cocky answer. Other men would've been modest about it].

Im gonna leave it there. We went on to flirt and I did about 2 more kino. Im pissed that I didn't get to kino her more.

Kiss close was out of the plan since the library was packed and I had little chance of isolation since she's the librarian working and I don't know the logistics of the place.

She's really digging my vibes more since I took the alpha initiative to go see her ass indirectly.

A major point I want to make is that man guys argue that online gaming is the way to go and it's as productive. I differ. Online chicks are fucking flakey.

This HB in this field report is an online chick who never wanted to meet nor even # exchange.

The vibes went sour(online)since she rejected my #cose attempt.

By me taking the bold move to show up at her work place(by chance she thinks-lol),her attraction for me skyrocketed to the point that she was flirting with me,kinoing,etc.

She was a dead cause online,but by me going to see her,I was able to salvage this sarge.
Author:  SpeXXX [ Tue Feb 02, 2010 2:55 am ]
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I second your opinion about online gaming, and girls being flakey. I think it mostly derives from the reason that there are lots of guys around there who are also trying to text her and get her attention.
She knows she is the prize so it will be difficult to create a solid attraction when all these men keep reminding her what shes worth.

Of course, that you suppose to be different then most other guys with your PU "special powers", but when online, she doesn't know how manly you are, if you're congruent, alpha, etc.

I don't know, maybe its just me but I find online gaming very annoying, while in-field, face to face gaming is hell much easier.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Feb 02, 2010 2:44 pm ]
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Thank you Spexxx.

Finally some one who agrees with me on this one.

There's a lot of fucking weird guys online hiting on these girls so its hard for her to differentiate who's a stalker or not!

Plus she cannot read congruency via text(online)since she can't see you.

Thanks for backing me on this.
Author:  CroPua [ Tue Feb 02, 2010 7:00 pm ]
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Those girls online are good only for training your skills etc... transitioning, switching subjects, making her interested in you etc... The thing is you must show HV and make her wanna meet... If she doesnt do that in some period 2-3-4 weeks... move to another... Dont waste time to much on one girl... Game as much as possible more girls... Its just a game, for training, except if they dont want to meet :)...

Im gaming one girl HB10 :). 1st my approach was totally different (funny and teasing). 2nd she sent me pics blabla i said always (nice pics, not "you are hot")... That kept her wondering (she rarely impress me ;))... Than we started to talk about more interesting things etc (she opened herself). The thing what i did here (im not moral i know but fuck it) - i was always on her side and i always "understand her", and her favor things were (ohh look at this shit) always same as mine xD... Nothing special but to game her its gr8... And now she mentioned few times "i must meet you", or wanna meet you blabla... The problem is shes pretty far away but ill see :).

It's simple, just the right approach is needed, thou some girls are tricky, those ones just leave and move on :).
Author:  Sense86 [ Tue Feb 02, 2010 7:38 pm ]
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I think going on facebook and myspace is also not really doing the job it should. I'm a newbie here but still, i tried many ruotines in the online sarging and still couldn't find a girl who trusted me even with an IM. I really connected with some of them but when i asked about #close or IM they were like scared:)

I think normal gaming is still the way to go...
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Feb 02, 2010 10:53 pm ]
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Its very rare to hear a newbie preferring to sarge in person than online(lol)
Author:  Chelios [ Tue Feb 02, 2010 11:39 pm ]
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I'm with you K, sarging online can be good, but in person it's a lot better, atleast your seeing what your getting, especially with appearance. From there just get the sets flowing.

Sounds like you did well man, well done, now deal with her!
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 12:58 am ]
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Thanks Chel,we're always on the same page.

Some update guys,and I want some answers although I have already.

I didnt manage to have a day 2 meet up with the librarian HB7.5 today so we chatted online minutes ago. This' the exact chat in order:

HB:U are shy,I realize that yesterday[when I seen her first]

Me:Lol,I know. Dont you like that about me?

HB:Nope!

HB:Or were you just acting?

Me:I have to put on performance at times.

HB:Ok

Me:You the 1 who kept running

HB:Run where?U seen me go anywhere?

Me:I hate girls who talk from afar.

HB:I was close enough 2 you

Me: I like to steer in girls' eyes when I talk

HB:U werent steering! u were asking why was I looking at u like that{I'd DLV'd and let her out steered me as I looked away]

Me:Lol

HB:I was the 1 steering

Me:U braver than I thought

HB:Im a brave bitch(lol)

HB:Thats the prob',u thought I was a shy and it turned around on you. Next time,I want to see if you still that shy.

Now guys,I'd did many things wrong that day(yesterday),like letting her out steer me,looknig away while she gazed at my eyes,etc.

Its funny how chicks pick up on that.

Now the question is guys. Is she challenging me on being braver next time as she said(she wants to see if Im still shy next meet)?

Should I take things up a notch via kino and all that? talk to me guys
Author:  SpeXXX [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 1:26 am ]
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Girls pick up quick on things like that because they are naturals. It is for them on an unconscious level to know whats happening. Its their nature, they are more sensitive about stuff like that than us.

And it sounds like the game is on. The girl wanna play!
Yes, put some sexual tension in the air, man up and gaze back at her (maybe tri-gazing to test the water)

Just out of curiosity, what did you reply her back when she shit-tested?:
Quote:
HB:Thats the prob',u thought I was a shy and it turned around on you. Next time,I want to see if you still that shy.
Author:  CroPua [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 4:46 am ]
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Tease her next time and use it smart kuz u must KINO her as much as posible :)...

and ofc DHV yourself... think of some way how you will do it ;)... story telling or whatever. GL ! ;)
Author:  Chelios [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 8:02 am ]
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Take the "i dont give a shit approach now" don't have any shyness, tease her, interpret some more kino, show her you aint shy, and i'd try make her feel a bit shy.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 1:52 pm ]
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Thanks Cropua.

Hey Spexxx,to be honest I dont remember what I said when she kinda shit tested me but it was along the lines of saying to her that she has a lot of chat... I know for sure I didn't qualify myself my saying,"yea,Im gonna be active with you".

Now Chel,Im not a shy APUA in the least. But the chick totally thre me the fuck off by giving me so much IOIs(obvious to me)that it creeped me out a bit!

I didn't expect that-for her to dig me like that(especially since the sparks died out much from our online chat). I planned on going in there and totally dominate this flakey chick with pure alphaness(as usual). When she started to give me like 5 IOIs simulataneously-I broke down(lol)and said to her,"why are you looking at me like that(lol),as if you want me"?

What fucked me up also was that the library was some what packed so I figured she've been more reserved on the IOIs-until I remember that IOIs are subconscious done-unknown to the girl.

These are the IOIs she gave noticeably(we men don't usually spot IOIs).

1)The hair flip(she kept slicking bacc her hair over her ears seductively)
2)She kept giving me the side ways look(her head tilted to side with a smile)
3)She exposed her wrist to me[I dont know if yall guys know this 1 but I read a post years ago by Mystery(I think)that said when a woman is interested or ON,she exposes or gives her wrist to the guy in submission-its subconscious].So as we talked,she had her wrist stretched to me across the book rack.
4)She was all giggly
5)She kept re-opening me after I negged her[I said to her,"Hey are you gonna let me read or you gonna keep bugging me(lol)]?
Author:  CroPua [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 2:06 pm ]
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the one thing i always watch are eyes... If you neg her, or tease her she will feel shy... When that happens they usually look down and than make the eye contact again... That also show subconsciously that shes attracted to you.

KINO her and watch the reaction... If she move back than it is to early... if she stay or move forward to you and smile than she definitely has no problems with you touching her ;). You can even push her or when she do the same (touch you)... Tease her about it like "ohh you were rly w8ing for this long time to touch me, didnt you?"... or "hey hey no touching (and wink her)" It's a gr8 push/pull but if you smile it will confuse her a lil bit and she will be wondering if she can or cannot do that again... But than you touch her again when that happen ;). There is also option to touch her and tell her "It's ok, you just behave and ill let you touch me again"... Dunno choose one of those what just came up to my mind :)... Every one of this should work ;)
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 4:49 pm ]
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We're on the same page Cropua.

Im generally great at teasing with kino especially pushing off the target playfully.

Its funny how she rejected my #close attempt online. I went for the # close again last night as we chatted on fb and she rejected again!!!

Guys,Im confused? Why is it after all this good gaming on day 1 and the targets definitely feeling me;wy is she refusing to pass the digits!!!?

Few thoughts as to why.
1)She has a jealous bf(I didn't care to asked so Idont know-lol.She never tell so its all good)
2)She's doesn't see the need to give the # when I can go see her(in other words,she's making the seduction easier opposed to phone gaming).

So what yall think guys?Why the hell did she reject my #close attempt TWICE(despite the great vibes)?
Author:  CroPua [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 9:19 pm ]
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I think she is just teasing you... She wants you to try more... :) But i wouldnt try more i would DHV myself and keep teasing her... Make her attracted to you and you will know when she will want from you to ask her for the numb :).

I got my own example... I was teasing one girl, she was attracted to me blabla...
I drived her home one night and we were talking about some cd's that night i must borrow her...

So before she went out from the car, she was like "ohh but how will you give me cd's you dont have my number"... She was actually begging me to get her # :)... i played it cool i was like "yah, you can write my number" 8). I throw the ball to her field so she had to call me instead ;)... I knew she will call me b/c of the way she wanted to make me to ask her for the # :)...

You do the same... Show her HV, make her interested... Dont push for the number kuz its "cool for you like this 8)"

But if you really wanted the number than you shouldnt ask her... After funny talk and lotz of laugh... Just take your cellphone and tell her "know what, i rly enjoyed our conv. gimme your number... i promise i want call you more than 40 times per day kuz i dont have that much time... but at least i will call you 20 times per day....hope thats enough?" Tease her with joke like that..

It should work kuz u didnt ask, and you made her laugh so she will be easier to give you the # ;).
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