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| Author: | Rooni [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 12:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Albania PUA+Wing - Second date fail on HB9 and HB7 |
Hey guys, Looking for some advise on what might have gone wrong here. This was the first pickup i ever tried... so bare with me. We pickup HB9HB7 on friday, geting eye contact ioi's I open with "you guys staying long case i want to take you place" get a "we staying here but you can join us" So i interduce my frinds and we game them. Building kino and ioi's, at a certain point HB9 asks if i have Facebook i say yes but i prefere cel number, ( she even asks me if I have a GF later) so she rights down here nr. on my cel we say that some frinds of ours are waiting for us at another place, before we go they invite us to join them to party with them the next day, as they would meet at the same venue that we were then and move to anothe place. We meet them today, they had a fiew friends around, but even though we tried to game them they would not respond and where rather cold, at a certain point we were isolated from the grup, they bail and make a half hearted invite to where they were going, we said maybe but didnt go. I feel very demoralized and did not try more pickup tonight... even after getting a lot of strong ioi’s in from other girls in the same club after they left. Looking forward to your feedback, |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 2:48 am ] |
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Rooni,Rooni,Rooni;you violated 1 of the cardinal rules of seduction-you can't game a girl infront of other girls or people she's with. You did say that when yall met them,they had other people with them(maybe extra friends). For all you know,they could've been the target's relatives,sister,brother,etc.She'd feel reluctant to open up infront of them! You should've known that-but at least you admitted you're newbie. Your wing and you should have been chatting up other HB's in the venue collecting social proof. Yall should've been gaming other girls where they can see then go back to them(the main girl)and chit chat and get introduced to the other people she's with. You need to read "Violation Theory" by LoveDrop. Go to love systems website and read that seduction article which will outline some of the things you might've done wrong. Perhaps you violated yourself thus disqualified yourself by ignoring the other people she's with.So now,the friends of your target probably said to her that you are stuck up and non-social for not introducing yourself nor chatting them up. That was the problem-you excluded the people she was with and they peer-pressured her into disqualifying you. |
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| Author: | Rooni [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 9:44 am ] |
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You are absolutley right k-loc, thanks for the advise. I think that was a major bad move... only good thing is that I can take what I learned from this and try to not repeat it again. Ohh just one more bit of advise, the girls are regulars at the club we go to, how should we act next time were aproached by them? I'd realy hate to loose HB9. Cheers, |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 5:44 pm ] |
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Yea its a learning process. Well next time you're approached by them,don't be apologetic. Act as though you forgot about your prior fuck up. If there are with others next time,say to her,Hey why don't you introduce me to your friends-that's the polite thing to do(lol). That line I got from Mystery. It subcommunicates to the target that they're being rude for not introducing. And remember,pay less attention to the target.Let her chase you some. At the club that they regularly go,chat up other girls. Tell her,hey I'll be bacc I have to say hello to my friends, and go chat up other girls while she wait. |
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| Author: | Blue Dre [ Sun Jan 31, 2010 6:55 pm ] |
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Shqipe! I'm Albanian as well. When I'm in the Balkans gaming Albanian girls, I often get A LOT of resistance and flakes because the girls don't want to be labeled as sluts. How the heck do you get around this?? You being Albanian you would know exactly what I'm talking about... sometimes even being seen alone with a girl leads other people to start rumors about you two and she wouldn't want that at all. Faliminderit. |
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