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| Author: | GBGVK-2011 [ Mon Jan 11, 2010 6:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Really bad OneItIs. Terrible to a Winner in hours! |
Right, this is my first post so hello everyone! Basically im writing this because in the matter of a few hours it went from a completely balls'd up situation to a real winner. This was my original post that i started to write on saturday evening "So im sat here at 9pm saturday evening overanalysing everything, thinking its all fucked up, that i care too much, thinking i dont want to go out tonight incase i see her. Self loathing because everything ive disobeyed everything ive learned in the past six months since discovering PUA. Trying my hardest to get over the HB10(who happens to be my best mates older sister) thats been on my mind constantly that week (yep i had oneitis realllllly bad.)" Heres the background... Basically this girl is perfect, no doubt about it. We started hanging out earlier that week watching films, going cinema, making snowman etc, i was trying my hardest to control myself, although shes gorgeous im certainly not desperate and ill place my best mate over a girl anyday. As it was i was gaming her anyway just for a laugh really, as i do with every girl i meet, if only just to keep my skills sharp. So we're hanging out and well i completely and utterly fell for her. I got oneitis real bad, i used to suffer really bad before i discovered PUA, but never had since....well untill now. I think the thing that caused it was the fact that she had some serious game, better then me as far as DHV, disqualifiers, and negs went. Of course she had no idea what she was doing. So anyway i start to care now, which as you all know is a big no no. And i get stuck in this rut where im constantly thinking about her, but when im with her im acting as if i dont care, as she really wasnt interested. And as the days go on i go more and more mad about it, i had some really bad moments by myself... Anyway this basically takes me up to the top post, heres what happened after.... So after feeling sorry for myself, i come up with a stupid idea! "im not gonna let her bother me, lets go and get absolutley wrecked!" so i grab enough booze to sedate a whale and head off round my buddies house where my mates have already started drinking, after a bottle of wine and some tequila believe it or not i started to forget about her, so we head into town and carry on drinking and we leave this pub, we're just about to head home, when i get like 5 text messages through, they are all from this girl over the last hour or so (didnt get signal in the pub btw) turns out she wants to meet me, so i meet her from this club and i invite myself over for a cup of tea and she said i can stay the night... awesome! anyway basically we go back to hers and...well after her ex boyfrind turning up crying and a cup of tea we fuck! and well it was worth the wait. Im seeing her this week so should carry on where we left off. But the point of this ridicolously long post, and the reason i even thought to post it in the first place, is that even if you think all is lost, if you have really bad oneitis, if you've lost faith in your abilities then dont give up, just because everything isnt going to plan doesnt mean it won't And im sure alot of you are thinking "Pussy! id of fucked her on the first day" and well maybe you would, to be honest if it was any other girl i probably would of too, but it was different with her, maybe its because shes my mates sister, maybe i see her as potential girlfriend material, i dunno. But mentally it has been the biggest thing ive overcome since discovering all this |
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| Author: | PrestigeJ [ Mon Jan 11, 2010 8:12 pm ] |
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Awesome, nice work indeed, I'm waiting for the same thing to happen to me, my one-fix was going great at first, then I AFC'd it and we almost lost contact, couple of weeks later, I started getting into the PUA-stuff and the connection is solid again, just waiting for stuff like this to happen though! 
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| Author: | GBGVK-2011 [ Mon Jan 11, 2010 10:49 pm ] |
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Seriously man, its pure gold when it does! Keep in there.... |
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