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| Author: | Guidosaurus Wrecks [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 4:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | First time in the bar. The birth of GnG |
I normally post my FR on a facebook forum so my friends can see but This is kinda bothering me so I figured Id post it here. Im cutting out the day game portion of the day, so lets jump into it. {{Language advised}} Ight the fun stuff starts now. Im 18 now bitches so naturally I went to dizzys(bar) to try my hand at night game. Let me say it was nothing how I expected it. From the top: *Pregamed with my friend and 6 hot girls. Took a shot of vodka and realized that it tastes fuckin nasty. The girls were nice, none of them attracted to me(maybe one was, she went to fredonia with my boy Rashty) so I just joked around with my friend and the girls and had a good time. 11ish we decide to head out, so were walking towards nachos when my friend says, Lets go to dizzys I got friends there. Im like ight, whatever you say (hes my pinpointer). We walked into dizzys and let me say, Holy shit. NOTHING how I pictured a bar. Its a small place thats packed to the gills, no breathing room, the rooms almost bitch dark, and the music is PUMPING loud. My friend grabbed a beer and attempted to find his friends. Turns out they were scattered around the bar and really didnt have much to do with him. Fuck mistake #1. Shit I needa make that a sticking point. #Never Leave Hot and Drunk girls. OK?! So we waited on line to nachos to meet with the girls, situational openered 2 girls who were waiting in line with us. 30 minutes later, we still arent in nachos, we say fuck it and go back to dizzys. My friend leaves (curfew) and im like fuck this shit I can handle this. Boy was I wrong. I was out of my element from the get go. I was making eye contact, seeming chill, chatting with a few of the guys but WASNT getting any ITDs (invitations to dance). So there goes that idea, I start hovering near some girls and dancing allitle seeming like Im having a good time, nothing. This failure proceeds until my eyes lock with a girl passing by. This is how the convo went. me "Why are you staring at me? You think im hot?" her "You were staring at me!!" me "You caught me, I was staring at you because you were pretty" her "I think your pretty to" me "We call it handsome not pretty, lets dance" **She seemed to comply, got a whisper from her friend as I was attempting to get close to dance, and she flaked. This is when I realized, WTF EGO(in field name)! GRAB THE BITCH AND GRIND TILL UR DICK FALLS OFF! Fuck, that was a blown set haha. So I walk outside take a breath of fresh air, chatted with paunovski over texts, and went back in. Turns out the girls we were with for the pregame said nachos sucked so came to dizzys looking for us. I told them my friend left, I waited with them on the line, showing massive pre-selection. I had a few girls looking my way on the line. Walked in with them and no1 seemed to notice. WTF? Isnt the pinacle of getting noticed walking in with 3 hot girls? (3 of them flaked to go home). So i danced a bit, they acted all horny, grinding all over the air and the stage/whatever the fuck it was, and went to the bathroom. No real attention to me. At this point my energy level was dwindling, It would have been nearly impossible for me to approach at a higher level than everyone else. I told them im having no luck, one girl told me these words that will change my game forever "Just grab her". I was dumbfounded, all these lines and all these processes' where all it took was to grab a girl, grind her up, and make out with her. The whole process takes less than 2 minutes if done right. I observed a retardedly high success rate among men who just went up and grabbed the girl in comparison to other guys who asked girls to dance/tried to sneak in. I left, walked to my car, didnt even say goodbye to the girls, not like they would have missed me anyway. I learned a ton of shit and for my first time in a Bar I learned alot. **THINGS TO CHANGE** -Grow a set of balls (self explanitory) -GRAB AND GRIND (my new night game moto) -I gotta loosen up and have fun, hands out of your pockets, stop fixing ur clothes, Im alpha and I know it. -Go more direct in both my street game and night game. ~~ego |
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| Author: | PurpleLight [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 5:02 am ] |
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Good lesson. What you should have done with that grinder of yours, is done my favorite number close, and whisper in her ear. (Courtesy , Style on the routine. He's like my guru) "Hey are you a thief?" "No." "Then why don't you put your number in?" And give her the phone. My number closer, never failed me once. |
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| Author: | Guidosaurus Wrecks [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 11:58 am ] |
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Problem was I didn't grind with anyone. I havn't done that kind of dancing before so it kinda threw me off. Plus in my mind I saw it as awkward to just grab a girl and grind on her, but now I realize thats the socially acceptable way of an alpha male. Just gotta go for it next time, the worst response ive observed is being told no. It just amazed me how in a small tight bar, there is no room to chat/talk making all these lines essentially worthless. The guys that talked to the girls ahead of time often failed/didn't get the full effect compared to a man who just grabbed a girl and started grinding on her. |
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| Author: | Elysium [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 7:24 am ] |
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I pretty much had the same revelation this weekend also. I ended up dancing with this girl, but she wanted to and was dancing with everyone. A good 'training wheels' type experience! I don't have problems being an alpha in different environments or introduced to groups, but I'm in the same boat as you with the club/bar dancing game. This and some other experiences that night allowed me to kind of put some of the 'theory' I've read into practice. Keep up the good work, man. I know some things that I heard on the topic suggest approaching in a not completely out of the blue manner, like coming from the side and such; there's some good stuff on dance game out there. For me, I definitely worked on making a lot of eye contact, smiling, and moving on and then coming back to them later to dance with. I had some great built in advantages though with my female roommate and knowing the bartender! I definitely saw what you're talking about happen though, my roommate and her boyfriend had a friend that came out with us, he tried to ask/chat up girls before hand and failed, only to see some guys come right up 15 seconds later and succeed. |
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