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| Author: | 1Suave [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 6:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | 1st Sarge, 1st n-close. Need tips though.. |
I know its long, but give me 5 minutes, thanks. Today I had my first sarge experience ever. I just finished readin "the game". I got into it bc i needed a way to get over my ex. Quote: "best cure for one-itis is to get with a dozen girls".
Heres my backround: No im not a virgin, no i dont have trouble with women, but i do have trouble approaching and getting them to take intrest at first meet/hitting on them. Once a conversation starts, I'm golden. But that's all it is, a conversation. not a pick-up.So heres how it started: I went to my college library to study, no peacok, sweats and my usual man-jewelry[rings bracelet and necklace]. I did my work, and an asian girl walked up to the computer infront of me. I'm pretty sure she did a double take, not sure. So i knew i had to say something to her. Yes i voilated the 3 sec rule by like 20 min. I Opened with ME:"hey" kinda soft "I need your opinion on something, which would you prefer, car or motorcycle?" HB7: "Car" She kinda expected it to end then I gave her my speech story[i'm doing a persuasive about which is better] Went on that for what seemed like forever. I asked her which car would she choose?[i think that was bad?] I had trouble weaving with what to say so I just asked if she was stuying, she said pshychology and sociology. I said i was doing the same and intorduced the cube bc i 'had read it in my sociology book' then sat down.She started small talk after the sociology and ask bout my major. I did the cube but then I didnt know what to do after I tell her about herself? I also tried to do the 1-10 and ill gues your number, which I failed. But she had a thick accent which I thnk is why I did fail because she thought about it and then said go, it wasn’t on my cue. Then I said I have to go do my hw now bc I ran out of thngs to say…I was still nervous and trying to stick to the script, not having a conversation. ME: "id love to continue our convo is there a way I can do that?” she again looked at me with a blank face as though processing what i had said HB7: "sure" I had a paper for the ‘book I was looking for’ and gave her that. I waited. She never said who she was, so.. ME: "I'm Suave by the way" HB7: I'm, Jenny" And walked away. Questions: What do you do while shes writing her number down? How do I weave in routines with 'my game'[conversation]? Did I talk to much? Should I have asked what was her major first? What about kino? Should i have gone into it? Anything else you would recomend? What not to do? What to do next time? Anything really [that helps]. Thanks again everyone! -Suave |
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| Author: | Buccaneer [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 10:56 am ] |
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Hi Suave, just some answers I would give ya, but perhaps there are other PUA's whom also got a few good tips. 1. relax and wait. It only takes about 5 seconds. Afterwards, just say thank you. Now weird comments or something: just "thank you". 2. this takes practice. I already think you did brilliantly saying you read about the cube in your sociology book. 3. No, but try to make sure that the fun-factor stays up and that you leave enough hints (subtle ones) that tell her that the convo is a human mating procedure. 4. I don't see why that would be relevent. 5. Yes, if you don't kino, the girl will think your just want conversation. Kino is the key to seeying if someone is sexually interested in you! Besides, there is nothing weird about Kino. If you're subtle about it you can do it to a person you have never met before within 60 seconds! I always thought I could never pull it of, but its more about being comfortable with yourself, then about worrying wether the other person is comfortable with it. 6. I recommend you eat vegetarian lasagna. Its very good for your health. 7. Just try to pick out lessons from every sarge. It is fun to learn. Once you learn the basics, closing will become easier. Keep practicing! Hope this helps you matey! Happy sailing, greetz Buccaneer 6 |
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