PUA Forum :: Girl Called me out me out within 5 minutes- Newbie

Hey everyone Im new here- Been looking at this site for the last month and have been able to work some game tips from this site at the club.

So my usual "game" at a club is to just hit the dancefloor and dance like Im having fun (goofy but not enough to look like a moron).

So I'm dancing and this smoking blond is checking me out giving me a smile of approval. So I dance my way over and giving her a little butt check and she responds well. Were dancing ( no touching or grinding) for about a minute- When she says "your fun" - her
"I know"- me with a smile
Then she laughs.
Then she goes
"your just trying to get laid"
I laughed, but I think I hesitated because a second later she was gone.

I didn't let it get to me. I saw her eying me later on in the night when she was dancing with some guy (While was doing my dance routine with some other chick- a friend)

First time I have ever had a girl call me out before.

This is how it should have gone:

HB: You're just trying to get laid.

PUA: Yes. Yes, I am.

OR

PUA: It's not my fault that you're so damn sexy.

OR

PUA: Yes, I want to fuck you.

OR

PUA: You don't even know the things I want to do to you.

OR

PUA: And YOU'RE just trying to get every guy in here to want to fuck you. Well, it's working on me and it just isn't fair!

OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT

Never underestimate the power of the SOI.

Depending on how she said it: (relative examples)

If you think it was an obnoxious comment, shit test or insult: I would have

- Taken a step back and say "Whoa there, I didn't mean it like that." with the same attiude she expressed. But because it is the club, where just talking to a woman she thinks u wanna fuk her, I would add "I have a girlfriend." In a serious tone to disqualify her. Because you said you weren't touching when dancing, this is congruent.

If it sounded like she was a confused, curious, having a bad day or lost faith in men:

A: Same team approach: "Aren't we all." This suggests that you both are on the same side and not trying to manipulate each other (even though this is exactly what you're doing). If a girl laughs when you say this or anything else that indicated the bs is down, you've passed.

B: Play hard to get: "Nice try." Flips the frame on her, making her the one who's hitting on you, trying to get in your pants. This could get you on the first rung of her sex ladder and psychologically prompts her to chase you. We want most what we can't have.

Conclusion: A girl bringing up sex directly can be good for your sarge, if we know how to work with it and escalate the tension.

Author:	oocolaoo [ Tue Oct 27, 2009 1:33 am ]
Post subject:	Girl Called me out me out within 5 minutes- Newbie
Hey everyone Im new here- Been looking at this site for the last month and have been able to work some game tips from this site at the club. So my usual "game" at a club is to just hit the dancefloor and dance like Im having fun (goofy but not enough to look like a moron). So I'm dancing and this smoking blond is checking me out giving me a smile of approval. So I dance my way over and giving her a little butt check and she responds well. Were dancing ( no touching or grinding) for about a minute- When she says "your fun" - her "I know"- me with a smile Then she laughs. Then she goes "your just trying to get laid" I laughed, but I think I hesitated because a second later she was gone. I didn't let it get to me. I saw her eying me later on in the night when she was dancing with some guy (While was doing my dance routine with some other chick- a friend) First time I have ever had a girl call me out before.

Author:	Chris101 [ Tue Oct 27, 2009 3:57 am ]
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Hmmm, there's a few ways you could have handled this better. Sometimes you have to see things like a test, or a challenge, rather than getting called out or rejected. Like instead of laughing, like she somehow "zinged" you good with that quip, you could have said "What, because I think I'm fun?", "Not really, but it sounds like you want to though" or "Is that all you think about?". Then grab her hand and give a spin to stop her from leaving straight away. Not field tested, but those would be my responses...

Author:	vizzy [ Tue Oct 27, 2009 4:42 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Girl Called me out me out within 5 minutes- Newbie
Quote: Hey everyone Im new here- Been looking at this site for the last month and have been able to work some game tips from this site at the club. So my usual "game" at a club is to just hit the dancefloor and dance like Im having fun (goofy but not enough to look like a moron). So I'm dancing and this smoking blond is checking me out giving me a smile of approval. So I dance my way over and giving her a little butt check and she responds well. Were dancing ( no touching or grinding) for about a minute- When she says "your fun" - her "I know"- me with a smile Then she laughs. Then she goes "your just trying to get laid" I laughed, but I think I hesitated because a second later she was gone. I didn't let it get to me. I saw her eying me later on in the night when she was dancing with some guy (While was doing my dance routine with some other chick- a friend) First time I have ever had a girl call me out before. So you danced with her without saying anything? Until she opened?? I would've done the simple thing and disqualified her "I'm trying to get laid? sorry to burst your bubble but I don't even know you" You should have responded better, after she said that (which was probably a "test") you didn't even respond, you just laughed. A simple "no" would've sufficed better than simply laughing. Because by laughing you aren't really denying or accepting what she said. With this "dance routine" do you wait for the girls to initiate the interaction?? I would suggest actually opening in better places too.

Author:	oocolaoo [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 1:13 am ]
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Hey, So- I did respond after I laughed- I think I said something to the effect of : No I'm not- Not too much better I know. Usually what I do when Im at a club is I dance with some friends for a bit then, I approach a girl who I have made eye contact with. I usually give them a hip check, or something to that effect. Then if they reciprocate I start dancing with them. At this point I just move in closer and closer, try to get as much touching as possible. Ive only been at this for about a month. The dance floor, as you said may not be the best venue to pick up because Its very loud and one can not really talk. However, I seem to have an advantage over most guys while on the dance floor. So, Ill likely never give it up. I like the retorts of "why you think Im fun" by Vizzy I could definitely pull that kind of a joke off.

Author:	Tom_"Maybe" [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 1:20 am ]
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I would have been like "What makes you say that? 'Cause I'm dancing like the whitest of all white boys?"

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Author:	kasabi [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:03 am ]
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Opportunity lost . . .

Author:	Chief [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 8:04 am ]
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This is how it should have gone: HB: You're just trying to get laid. PUA: Yes. Yes, I am. OR PUA: It's not my fault that you're so damn sexy. OR PUA: Yes, I want to fuck you. OR PUA: You don't even know the things I want to do to you. OR PUA: And YOU'RE just trying to get every guy in here to want to fuck you. Well, it's working on me and it just isn't fair! OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT Never underestimate the power of the SOI.

Author:	NewApprentice [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 9:07 am ]
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Quote: This is how it should have gone: HB: You're just trying to get laid. PUA: Yes. Yes, I am. OR PUA: It's not my fault that you're so damn sexy. OR PUA: Yes, I want to fuck you. OR PUA: You don't even know the things I want to do to you. OR PUA: And YOU'RE just trying to get every guy in here to want to fuck you. Well, it's working on me and it just isn't fair! OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT Never underestimate the power of the SOI. Yep, Im no expert but this sounds right. "It's not my fault that you're so damn sexy." I think sounds the best. The others might be a bit too blunt and the last one maybe a bit needy?

Author:	xibuz [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 9:48 am ]
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Depending on how she said it: (relative examples) If you think it was an obnoxious comment, shit test or insult: I would have - Taken a step back and say "Whoa there, I didn't mean it like that." with the same attiude she expressed. But because it is the club, where just talking to a woman she thinks u wanna fuk her, I would add "I have a girlfriend." In a serious tone to disqualify her. Because you said you weren't touching when dancing, this is congruent. If it sounded like she was a confused, curious, having a bad day or lost faith in men: A: Same team approach: "Aren't we all." This suggests that you both are on the same side and not trying to manipulate each other (even though this is exactly what you're doing). If a girl laughs when you say this or anything else that indicated the bs is down, you've passed. B: Play hard to get: "Nice try." Flips the frame on her, making her the one who's hitting on you, trying to get in your pants. This could get you on the first rung of her sex ladder and psychologically prompts her to chase you. We want most what we can't have. Conclusion: A girl bringing up sex directly can be good for your sarge, if we know how to work with it and escalate the tension.

Author:	Chief [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 10:23 pm ]
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Quote: Depending on how she said it: (relative examples) If you think it was an obnoxious comment, shit test or insult: I would have - Taken a step back and say "Whoa there, I didn't mean it like that." with the same attiude she expressed. But because it is the club, where just talking to a woman she thinks u wanna fuk her, I would add "I have a girlfriend." In a serious tone to disqualify her. Because you said you weren't touching when dancing, this is congruent. If it sounded like she was a confused, curious, having a bad day or lost faith in men: A: Same team approach: "Aren't we all." This suggests that you both are on the same side and not trying to manipulate each other (even though this is exactly what you're doing). If a girl laughs when you say this or anything else that indicated the bs is down, you've passed. B: Play hard to get: "Nice try." Flips the frame on her, making her the one who's hitting on you, trying to get in your pants. This could get you on the first rung of her sex ladder and psychologically prompts her to chase you. We want most what we can't have. Conclusion: A girl bringing up sex directly can be good for your sarge, if we know how to work with it and escalate the tension. Those are all just as bad as the ones people posted above. Any denial of your honest sexual intentions is a major DLV. The same team approach pigeonholes you into the same category as all the other chodes in the venue. Playing hard to get only works once you've explicitly dangled the bait in front of her face.

Author:	Ezo [ Thu Oct 29, 2009 10:41 pm ]
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No, Im not "JUST" trying to get laid, I would also like a burger and some fries because Im hungry. Yes, of course, I am a sexual person, why would I be ashamed about that? So whats your thing about guys who just try to get laid. Toucé! The reason you got this response is because you started dancing with her without having any social interaction with her before. You should at least talk to her before. On the dancefloor it is difficult to show that you are different from the other guys, unless your bodylanguage is good. You might have shown too much interest. You fell for her shittest, she hinted at the fact that she might like you and you went for it immediately! Dont do that, hard to get is better. 99% of the guys out there do exactly that and we are the exception to the rule! Ezo

Author:	kasabi [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 4:13 am ]
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No, the reason the OP got this response is because SHE'S the one who is looking to get laid. Guys are LITERAL animals. We say we go out to buy socks and that's what we do. Girls say they want to shop for socks and all it means is that "shopping is in her mind". When communicating with chicks, focus on the MAIN TOPIC and toss all of her other ramblings out the window. Also . . . I've never been a fan of "telling" a girl who I am, what I am, blah, blah, blah . . . This is boring stuff. Recently, a bunch of newbies have been busy "telling" the forum that they are "this and that and this and that" and the response given to them from a great majority of members have been what amounts to, "You're an idiot . . ." Girls are the same, if not even more harsh with gum flappers. The girl mentioned in the original post simply spoke what was in her mind. (her vaginal mind) And as documented by most posts given on this thread, many guys will stick their cocks between their legs and back off. Think about this . . . how much effort do you guys have to make to bring up a SEXUAL TOPIC during a conversation with girl? If you're natural at this, no problems . . . but you can tell from reading lots of posts on this forum that bringing up a sexual topic is a big hurdle for most guys. In this case, THE GIRL brought up the sexual topic. This is a gift on a platter. No need for segways. No need to build up . . . So you'd go with what Chief suggested and toss it right back to her court. You'll get a variety of responses, "Oh my God, you're so forward." "Yeah, you wish." "So why don't you go find a hooker." etc . . . What you have to do is stick to her MAIN TOPIC. Unless she walks away, everything she says is STILL a SEXUAL TOPIC. Toss everything else out the window! So you continue to make her drop her jaw and wet her panties. "Ooh, feisty . . . I bet you know exactly what you want in the bed room . . ." " . . . I'll make you cum over and over again . . . " If she's still there dancing with you, it's on. So only at this point do you pull back a bit and make her CHASE after it. No matter what you say now, she's thinking, "sex, sex, sex". At this point, you could probably talk about your grade school cafeteria lunch tacos and she'll still work to bring SEX back on the agenda. . . . This is where you want to be . . .

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