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| Author: | mattarama [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 3:04 am ] |
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Now, I know this might not be a big deal to any of you, but I am pretty impressed with myself so I'd like to share it anyway. next-vt53140.html?postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=15 Whether or not you happened to read that, that was my problem. It was quite a stupid problem, but it was a problem. Anyway, in short I was VERY fearful of being sexual with my girlfriend, just because of the social conditioning that i went through as a child (being friends with girls only, etc etc) that made me so frightened of acting upon sexual desires. Anyway, my girlfriend has had sex before, i have not. I was too much of a p*ssy to do anything Even with the reinforcing words of the PUA community i was too much of a p*ssy to do anything. Today, although I didn't do much in terms of what you guys do, I did break down a wall of fear that was stopping me for so long. Anyway, I'm making too much of a build-up for too little of a situation. I touched a vagina. *gasp* LOL! Rofl...yeah, i mixed dicarlo escalation ladder with the seduction method's escalation ladder, and made sure I was in control of when the making out started and stopped (she was a makeout fiend) i let each session get slightly longer than the last (yes i actually counted) and, eventually i just found my hand down her pants. i didnt finger her because i have long nails for classical guitar...and i didnt want to hurt her, and her assosciate sexual pleasure with me = bad (as she is not a virgin, and i am) which i will have to cut tonight...hopefully the outer vaginal stimulation will create loads of sexual tension, without her just thinking i chickened out and am afc. I'll have to fill you guys in next time...with a lay report hopefully. And yeah, as I said this is nothing big for you, but it's a huge huge huge event for me, and I just felt it needed to be said. |
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| Author: | scudd [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 2:07 pm ] |
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cool shit. i guess your stuff as a child has affected your thinking. just remember with crap like that you need to go at your pace maby escalting each day or what not. but least you are getting over that anxiety |
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| Author: | mattarama [ Fri Oct 16, 2009 10:14 pm ] |
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Yeah...I basically went up one step on the escalation ladder every time I saw her, so that I could test the waters, build up my confidence, and not surprise her too much. |
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