So I'm new to the area/newly single, don't know anyone, figured I'd join a gym (as well as these forums!)
I joined this elitist (extravagant) gym where all the employees dress like they are in an office and most look like they could be part time models (or air hostesses from the '60s).
So I joined earlier this week and, surprise, was set up with an HB8 sales person. I'm 24, I'd guess she's anywhere from 24-27. Made the deal, nothing special, but was able to make her smile. Again, she's paid to be nice to me so this means nothing.
SUCCESS--TBD?
So yesterday I go to the gym, do my thing, and end up grabbing a bite post-workout in the cafe. I see this woman but she is with two co-workers and I was so hungry I didn't even acknowledge her.
Mid-meal, she approached me (again, no prior eye-contact or anything) to ask how I was liking the gym (IOI?). I was seated at a hi-rise bar type table, so she was standing across from me. At this point, she was no longer being nice because it was her job. She could've said "great" and left. She stayed and we talked about aspects of our personal lives. She asked several questions about me (IOIs?). 10 minutes must have passed and she left.
At one point she said she doesn't go out much in my town because she has a long commute. Was thinking this could be a window to say "come out with us, crash at my place if you're too drunk".
What are some good next moves in this situation? Totally new to this...
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