I went to a club with my roommate tonight and my AA was getting the best of me for a while. (probably like an hour or so) when we were walking back down stairs there was a group of four people yelling up into the air and i walked barely past them, turned around and was like "what's this about? it looks fun!" the four set was two guys and two girls. I introduced myself to the guys first, then the girls. we chatted for like 10 minutes, then we all split up.
My roommate and I decided to go try out some different bars/clubs and they were all fail. not a lot of people at all. We wound up back at the previous club and we arrived to a MUCH more packed place than before.
We were going back upstairs and one of the guys from before was like "hey Josh!" and he was with this 8 that was pretty hot. I didn't even think I was going to be interested lol (or that she wouldn't be interested in me?) but I walked around some more approached a couple girls with nothing at all really.
I wound up back with them at the booth they were sitting at and was talking with those two dudes from before and the 8 was dancing like a wild child haha. She was pretty drunk and knew it.
Anyway, we ended up talking after those two left to smoke and I didn't really use anything, the convo went like this:
me: "You know you would totally fail a breathalyzer right now right?"
her: -giggles- "Yeah, I know, I'm really drunk right now"
me: "I can tell, you were beating up that poor chair over there!" (she was really beating up a chair while dancing lol)
her: -giggles-
me: "You're like a 20 year old you know that?"
her: "haha, I'm 27!"
-she gets up and dances some more and ends up flopping down beside me again-
me: "you're a big goofball! What do you do?"
her: -laughs- (I can't really remember lol) but she ended up telling me she's a singer/songwriter which relates to me because I'm a recording engineer.
me: "Are you a jazzy/country or bluesy singer?"
her: "jazzy/bluesy"
I ended up asking some more stuff, we got up and danced together and had a good time, she ended up kissing me on the cheek and whatnot, and grabbed my hair and was like "omg, your hair is so soft!" I said "I know, isn't it wonderful? You know what I really like?" I did the thing mystery does where he pulls her hair from behind gently and she loved it lol.
She ended up kissing me on the cheek and stuff and I dove it and kissed her on the lips, we ended up exchanging numbers and I remembered her name which seemed to make her REALLY happy. She asked me to call her tomorrow "when I'm sober" she says. I said "sure, maybe we'll get together" she was agreeing to it.
I ended up walking out and was waiting at the walk light to turn and she came out next to me and I said "Are you stalking me now?!?
" she giggled and said "no! I'm just going across the street to get some pizza and then I'm gonna take a cab home" She almost fell over so I caught her and we walked hand in hand across the road in which she started hugging on me as I was getting ready to walk back to the car and said "I like you, you're really cool
" I said "no you don't, you're attracted to me" She laughed and friggin SNORTED, I lol'd hard and called her a pig in a playful tone of course.We ended up kissing two more times after a couple cheek and neck kisses to me and she reiterated to call her tomorrow.
That was a mouthful, now help me analyze this so I can figure out why it worked, I'm somewhat afraid to ask questions because I don't want it to seem like an interview but I was genuinely interested and she wasn't slutty which is a plus to me considering she said "call me when I'm sober".
The reasons I think it worked are because:
1. I remembered her name
2. we had fun
3. I was actually interested in her
Perhaps some more experienced guys can give me some more insight hopefully without saying "Well, she was tipsy."
I was thinking that what skywalker always says was actually very true here. "What is everyone's favorite subject to talk about? Themselves!"