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| Author: | Alpha Nerd [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 11:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Newbie Challenge with n-close! |
(note: i posted this in the newbie section but think this is where i should have put it.) >where you're located = Tulsa, OK >your age = 21 >how you got into "the game" = found random ebook and did a google search. >how long you've been studying and practicing pickup 2 days >which pickup method(s) you like to use attack and hope for the best lol idk >what your hobbies/passions are Philosophy, Marijuana, Self improvement, Music, Mind expansion, Psychology erm.. >what your goals are Need to be more social generally (with males and females) but as far as the females go i would like to get good at the gunwitch (sp?) method. >and whatever back story you wish to share with us. Well My experience with girls is not bad for someone who doesn't know much about this stuff yet. I've had sex with 4 girls; 2 of which multiple times. 1 of those being a girl i dated for just over 2 years. I used to be extremely extroverted until i did a bunch of acid which resulted in extreme introspection ending in depression. Depression which lasted about a year and half which I would say I'm still recovering from. More recently I've gotten back out there more but nothing compared to how i used to be. That being said... Todays Trip report (the newbie mission)... So, I got dressed up real nice (preppy, meh.. would like to develop more of bad boy look), gelled my hair, and put on some shades. I drove to a close by book store and went in... The first girl i said hi to was definitely the hottest i saw of all the girls that i spoke with. I would say she was a HB8 or so. She was maybe 18-19 and we were in the mystery/romance section. I built up enough courage and said something like "So what kinda books do you like to read" lol. I was really nervous as I've never done something like this before. Every relationship I've had in the past has been with a girl whom was in my inner circle. Anyway, i definitely started blushing and was stumbling over what to say. I felt really lame saying stuff like "so these romance novels are your thing huh" it was totally unnatural. BUT, after running out of what to talk about she went around the corner as i remained there and 2-3 mins later she was back walking my way. I said something again like "so what do you think of mystery novels"; both of us being a bit more comforable. we chatted some again and soon the same thing happened with both of us going separate ways. After this i walked to the other side of the store saying "hey, how you doin" to one HB7 as we passed. She said "hi, Im good" with a smile. I just kept walking but should have turned around looking back on it now. The next girl i talked to looked good from the back but as soon i saw her face i was like "lol" (in my mind of course). Regardless i said "hey, i normally dont read novels, is there something you would recommend" She picked one out and we chatted a bit about it but i was more less looking for a reason to leave. I took the book, told her thanks, and told her ima go read some of this and tell you what i think. 10 mins later or so i got back up to hunt again. Talked to chick who worked there HB7 with huge tittys. Then her manager came over and told her to get to work lol. (she was a nerd we talked about how she liked to play WOW) i totally would have hit it though. Nice girl. Said hi to like 2 more random chicks in passing as i "read". Just few sentences nothing substantial. SUCCESS PART.... then SHE walked by. HB7.5. She was wearing nurses cloths. I said "Nice pants are you a nurse or something"? She looked far to young to have had gone to school for nursing (shes 19). She was "oh these? lol no i just work at the nursing clothing store just down the road. I'm here before work just wasting time." We really hit it off talking back and forth. I FELT SO MUCH MORE NATURAL then the first girl i said hi to. 5 mins after talking we were talking about suprises for some reason. I was like "hmm, well would it be a suprise if i asked you for your phone number" she was like "no not at all" TADA lol. after getting that and talking with her some more i was like "hey you wanna go get some coffee?" she said sure and we did. God knows what we talked about. But here are some things i did during our conversations that id like to know your guys thoughts on. 1. I asked her name and when she asked mine i wouldn't tell her. She still doesn't know. I made like it was a big secret. I'm in her phone right now as "Guy" lol 2. I made her feel self conscious by bring up the topic "so, let me as u this: if someone you know has an eye booger do you tell them? or how would you handle that situation?" She was like "OMG, you cant say stuff like that and quickly checks her eyes lol. Then i played along with it and looked at her nose all suspiciously and said "or real boogers" lol and did that for a few other things. it was funny. 3. I bought her the coffee.. fuck? 4. As we were sitting i could tell she was debating whether to sit across or next to me on a 4 person table. She started to sit across and i was like "no, you should sit here" and proceeded to pull out the chair. She was like "k" 5. OK i had some trouble here. She had her nails painted and i kept trying to touch her hands and talk about them. She didn't seem to comfortable with me touching her. If someone has any advice in this area please let me know. 6. Basically right in the middle of dialogue half an hour before she had to be to work i was like "Ok well i got to go" I thought this was clever as it made me seem like i dont like her? Kinda leave her wondering...? erm idk that's what i was thinking at the time. What do you all think? 7. As I got up to leave i was like "arnt you going to walk me out to my car?" jokingly. She was like "oh ok sure". and as we were leaving i went in for a hug. She gave me a side hug... I was like "aw, i only get a side hug and said well if thats the case give me another itll be like having a full hug." She laughed and gave me another and we said our goodbyes and nice to meet you etc. Please comment. |
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| Author: | Owinover [ Thu Oct 08, 2009 10:17 pm ] |
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With the coffee, I would have gotten in line with her, ordered my coffee first, paid, got my coffee, and sit down. Don't say anything to her, just sit down as though you know she's going to join you... She isnt going to run off. She'll most likely buy a coffee for herself and join you. Go through some texts or pretend to text or sit down and chill while she pays for her shit 
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