hey dudes, this is gonna be a weird report scenes that i was quite drunk, but thers a good lesson involved also
before the uni summer holidays, i met a hb9 in a club, i was very new to this back then, did mysteries 3 qualities in a girl neg and it did noooot go down well, i got hit in ze face lol
but after the holidays turns out this gal is a friend of alot of my friends and attends a house party we are having. so i start talking to her again and bust her a little bit on the punching this (calling her a tyson wannabe ect) she was laughing and she apologised stating that she was drunk that night and cant actualy remember doing it.
another few days pass and we have another party, and i meet her again, my friend at this point is starting to annoy me as he has taken a weird liking to her and is following her around like a horny jackal, so i start talking to her again and my friend anders off, we are left alone in the kitchen. we are talking and just generaly having a laugh, when i notice shes leaning into me with her arm resting on the wall behind me. i say somthing like "your doing the thing that guys do when ther trying to stop a girl from getting away, your making sure i dont leave arnt you", she replies with somthing like "dam right i am" and voila k close.
aloto stuff has happened wi her since then however i thought i would just share this lil lesson id learned with ya all
my first impression i left with her obvs cudnt have been good even if she was drunk, however it is not impossible to change, especialy if you treat it as nothing and humorous.
there are so many routines people try, however they are not needed, i have one or two routines but they are like little games really, i only use them because i actualy enjoy them. just have a laugh, make the interaction fun, if your not having fun doing this then whyyy do it? even if your having trouble with success at least you can say your still enjoying the ride.
also bantering is awesome, fun banter, i do it becuase i think its funny and i enjoy it, and that shows.
im far from anything expert in the game, im not claiming this is the only way to do things, if your way works for you then keep at it. just make it fun guys, your success rate will shoot up and it makes game better in general.
people often ask "how can i seem more calibirated and congruent?"..the answe? BE calibirated and congruent, dont seeem like your trying to have a good night, actualy have a good night! lol
hope ya found this useful in some way guys, like i said i am no expert, far from it so if you have some tips of ya own ya wanna share on this topic, or even just a reply, im happy to read as im sure others are
Happy Gaming dudes