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| Author: | easilyforgettable [ Wed Sep 23, 2009 9:32 am ] |
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Setting- Nightclub 2 Set- HB 8's Approach one and say Me- Who would win in a fight a smurf or a cat? Her- What? (surprised but smiling) Me- Repeat question Her- Definately a smurf Me- Really?? (surprised look) I move to her friend Me- repeat question to her Her- smurf (laughs) We then have abit more banter discussing who would do better in a fight and why. One of the friends starts to dance with other people so im just left me and the other one. I use some more canned material Me- What do you think of men who wear skinny scarves on a nightout? Her- I think they look good Me- Well i thought that but i wore one out on saturday and got hit on by like 3 guys Her- laughs Me- So im starting to think they might look abit gay Her- no they look good I am very new to sarging but the last few nights ive tried stuff out and had alot of success with talking to girls and opening. Now the problem is that once i have opened and used 2-3 bits of canned material i have no real clue how to escalate it and keep her occupied, very soon the conversations become awkward and i just have to leave Feedback on the above approach would be good What can you do to escalate the conversation and keep it going? |
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| Author: | tarzan15 [ Wed Sep 23, 2009 1:06 pm ] |
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Canned material will only get you so far. After that, it's about having her open up, and talk about herself (because everybody's favorite subject is themselves) When she opens up and starts talking about herself, that's when you start the negs. |
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| Author: | sorce [ Wed Sep 23, 2009 7:43 pm ] |
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Funny - I just read your FR, then picked up the Mystery Method book to finish it up. After a few minutes, I reached page 176, which discusses "Grounding." I think this is just what you need, and two aspects in particular: Getting the girl to open up as you ground her (179)...and...coaxing the girl to ground you when she tells you about her life (178). Sorce |
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| Author: | easilyforgettable [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 9:29 am ] |
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Thanks alot, will check that out!! |
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