On thursday i went on holiday in south west england, we stayed in a small holiday home, on the campus there was a standard activities i.e. pool, arcade etc.
before i start may i just say this was a huge kick up my backside for me and a very important experience in my life.
It started in the main arcade room, i was walking towards the bar and a HB9 (< im not good at this ranking HBs), I had been eyeing up, stopped me where i was from, I was slightly startled aback, gave her a strange look and said (location), started talking to her acting slitely laid back giving what i think was positive body language, i made few jokes she seemed interested i remember one ioi which was she said she like my style but i was sorta unsure, then a hb4 came up to me and asked my name i said it, i asked both their ages, hb4 said 16 hb9 said 15 i sed i was 17 so i looked at hb4 and said, so your ok then(this means legal to have sex but in a subtle way) to push pull with hb9, hb9 pulled me up to dance i said i didnt dance but she urged me to go up, danced a bit pulled some insanely stupid moves
, went back to sit down hb4 sat next to me again and made her laugh a few times (to make my target jealous), hb4 then pulled me up to dance whilst i had a drink in my hand, i spilt some and i told her it was her fault and she owed me one, i then danced and gave bad body language (looking away), then went to sit down next to hb9 got talking again she said "this is one of the biggest compliments you can get, you look like freddy off skins"(who i know alot of girls like) i gave her some kino during this conversation, she told me that she needed something from her room i sed i'd come along, once away from hb4 and every1 else i told her i wanted to get away from hb4 (who was giving me way too many iois), we went to her room and i waited outside, because her dad was indoors, she came out and we walked back she said she wanted to go the long way round, i said i wanted to walk to the beach (this was like at 11pm) and suggested she come along too she thought it was a bit too dark but still agreed to come along, we walked and talked i dhved myself by telling what sports i did and that i go to the gym etc this is when i was in comfort just talking we were on the beach and it was dark we didnt know where we were going, we both tripped a few times so i put my arm round her "so we could keep each other up", she then asked me what sort of girls i liked i said in looks i dont really mind but preferably little make up, but i like girls who are adventurous and are very talkative "as i dont want to be talking all the time" i then said in looks you probably fit the picture, i then told her she was shy because she needed 2 other friends to come up to me, she then challenged me and asked me if i would have come up to her, i told her im not shy and of course i would have done(this i think was a shit test), we then near the campus again as we decided to head back, she then asked me what we would say to the others i said just say i was chilling in your room talking to ur dad, we got back and it was very quiet between all the other people and hb4 who asked me what we were doing, later on we were all dancing again i went to sit down once again hb4 constantly tried to pull me outside she then asked me whilst i was still sitting down if i was interested in her or hb9 i said i was sorry it was not her, i then went to hb9 again and we chilled and danced etc made a bit of a fool of myself but i didnt care i told hb9 and everyone else i was going to bed soon, (to leave myself and hb9 in a good mindset), later on i went to bed
Next day i saw hb9 again and she was going to the beach i told her my parents had left me to go for the beach too she said she was going surfing i sed id come along to she then got embarrassed and sed im not surfing then i sed it was cool she can surf if she wanted to but she resisted, in the end we were walking along the beach again building more of a rapport, we ended up getting lost trying to find another way back to the campus we went over a fence and the was lots of plants which hurt her as she had sandles on i sed id giv her a piggy back she said she would be too heavy i sed oh well gave her a piggy back a 10 meters later i sed ur too heavy and threw off purposely we then walked on and got back to the the campus and loads of people are on the computer in the lobby we chill for a bit, me and hb9 chill in pool room she checks through my music in my fone and i do style's 5 lies routine ahe lost and i told her the secret of the game, later on that night hb4 asked my number which was the first time had ever been asked that by a girl i refused there was an awful silence, but to get to the point i had competition and hb9 was trying to get on him giving him way better body language (leant in) than i ever got, i got talking to him (making friends) every1 gave us weird looks i went into the toilets and he came in after me we got talking again and i asked about his love life he sed he had a gf and that i was ok to get with hb9, although he sed this later on he gave too much kino for my liking to her , i didnt know what to do later on hb4's best friend (hb8.5) takes me outside and confronts me about refusing hb4 and tells me not to get it on with anyone tonite because it would hurt hb4, i then sed not even you gave her a smile and she sed not even me we then went back i went to the dance floor raved a bit i then went to sit next to hb4 and told her it was my fault not her fault i refused her advances, had quite a long conversation, then went back to the dance floor and hb9 sez she needs to get to bed, later on hb4s friend givs me hers and hb4s numbers and told me to apologise in a few days i then went to bed, next day i was saying bye to everyone because it was everyones last day, me and hb9 were still left on campus , i went to the pool waiting for my family to get dfone later on hb9 was changed and also got in the pool whilst she got out later on and talked to me whilst i was talking to my sister she told me my parents had asked her a few questions (where she was from etc), hb9s dad was giving me evils(lol) she then sed she now liked her skin colour (as i said it was sexy on the beach a few nites b4) i sed good for you later on we parted our ways.
now i know that was very long but please read it or at least run through it taking the important bits and helping me out where i went wrong and where i was right.
thank you
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