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Sounded OK up until the second exchange
"Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say? "

2 negs in a row is a bit dangerous, especially if she isn't a HB 9/10.

How would you rate her HB?

I think just aboout every book/expert on the Negging subject would agree that you shouldn't neg more than 2-3 times in a conversation, unless the HB is REALLY HOT.

I am not sure smiling is so bad, I smile all the time (just in diferent ways)

Onto the good point... you approached her and got her to respond with interest. You didn't stand accross the store saying "wow she is hot" and then walk away.

Also.... there are no mistakes! Just learning experiences.

Hope this helps

HB: *Laughs Hey!!! It Makes Me Unique
Patho*GEN : Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say?

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HB: *Laughs Hey!!! It Makes Me Unique
Patho*GEN : Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say?

Nice opening.

Well, you negged her "fashion" or "style" directly after she told you her earrings makes her "unique". I'm pretty sure she took it as an insult.

You could have done alot more CF on her earrings and made her laugh. Also, do some DHV, rapport building and that you might have to go soon before you ask her to help you shop.

"what do you say" that was a little AFCish. Sounds needy and not alpha.

Author:	*PathoGEN** [ Fri Aug 03, 2007 7:39 pm ]
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PathoGEN : Hi.. Nice Earrings.. But Damn I Could Hoola Hoop In Those HB: Laughs Hey!!! It Makes Me Unique Patho*GEN : Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say? HB : No I Cant Sorry, Im Running Late, Bye She Basically Turned Away And Vanished After That. Do U Think I Made A Mistake By Saying "What Do U Say" I Dont Know What I Cud Have Done Different, I Maintained Eye COntact, My Approach Was Direct, I Was Careful Not To Smile Too Much And I Used A Neg

Author:	Crashpad [ Fri Aug 03, 2007 11:06 pm ]
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Sounded OK up until the second exchange "Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say? " 2 negs in a row is a bit dangerous, especially if she isn't a HB 9/10. How would you rate her HB? I think just aboout every book/expert on the Negging subject would agree that you shouldn't neg more than 2-3 times in a conversation, unless the HB is REALLY HOT. I am not sure smiling is so bad, I smile all the time (just in diferent ways) Onto the good point... you approached her and got her to respond with interest. You didn't stand accross the store saying "wow she is hot" and then walk away. Also.... there are no mistakes! Just learning experiences. Hope this helps

Author:	*PathoGEN** [ Sat Aug 04, 2007 10:46 am ]
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Quote: Sounded OK up until the second exchange "Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say? " 2 negs in a row is a bit dangerous, especially if she isn't a HB 9/10. How would you rate her HB? I think just aboout every book/expert on the Negging subject would agree that you shouldn't neg more than 2-3 times in a conversation, unless the HB is REALLY HOT. I am not sure smiling is so bad, I smile all the time (just in diferent ways) Onto the good point... you approached her and got her to respond with interest. You didn't stand accross the store saying "wow she is hot" and then walk away. Also.... there are no mistakes! Just learning experiences. Hope this helps she was an HB9 but dats very subjective btwn people, she was really hot. but thanks man ill work on it. ill keep approaching people and talking to them to get rid of anxiety and i wont neg as much. Its jus that i have developed a sarcastic personality over the years and negging has become a part of me

Author:	smokedoutabear [ Sat Aug 04, 2007 1:24 pm ]
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Quote: HB: Laughs Hey!!! It Makes Me Unique PathoGEN : Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say? Nice opening. Well, you negged her "fashion" or "style" directly after she told you her earrings makes her "unique". I'm pretty sure she took it as an insult. You could have done alot more CF on her earrings and made her laugh. Also, do some DHV, rapport building and that you might have to go soon before you ask her to help you shop. "what do you say" that was a little AFCish. Sounds needy and not alpha.

Author:	*PathoGEN** [ Sat Aug 04, 2007 8:08 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: HB: Laughs Hey!!! It Makes Me Unique PathoGEN : Yea... Sure It Does, Anyway I Need To Find A Good Shirt, Your Fashion Doesnt Look Too Bad, So What Do U Say? Nice opening. Well, you negged her "fashion" or "style" directly after she told you her earrings makes her "unique". I'm pretty sure she took it as an insult. You could have done alot more CF on her earrings and made her laugh. Also, do some DHV, rapport building and that you might have to go soon before you ask her to help you shop. "what do you say" that was a little AFCish. Sounds needy and not alpha. thanks for the advice man, what do you think i could have said instead?

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