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Author:  kerrgowg [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 9:58 pm ]
Post subject:  FR. First party ever (house party). First kiss ever.
So a couple of weeks ago i was on my first party ever which was a house party.. Ive read some PUA books and i tried to keep the some routines and stuff in mind for the party.
So we arrived and i said hello to most of the people..
There were like 70 people there, big party.
We sat down for most of the time.. I was really confused and not in the moment at all.

So as the night went on i tried to make eye contact with some of the girls, and i succeeded sometimes.
Then when me and my buddies were walking through the "dancefloor", this babe comes (HB7.5- 8) and starts dancing with me from nowhere.
And ive never done this shit before so i try to improvise and i was like shocked.
Then she goes away with her friends and gives me a wink like this :wink: .
So my friends push me towards here telling me to go get her.. And i was like naa im cool ill get her later..
So later on i see her again, and she comes up to me again and we start dancing. She asks my name and we exchange names...
We dance for a while and then we go outside to talk.
She tells me that she think im hot and she has seen me before with my buddies and shit..
I didnt say shit i was fucking confused and i just try to follow allong when she asks these questions and shit...
Later on we dance for like an 30 minutes or so...
Then i thought to myself wtf am i doing ive gotten like 30 IOI's.
So i tell her lets go upstairs.
We go in to a room and then she sits on the bed and just drags me upon her and we start to make out for like 10 minutes or so..
Then we get interrupted and we go downstairs again.. Then she had to leave and i took her number, and since then we havent talked that much.. only chitchatting online and text messaging, and when text message each other its like very boring and she lives kind of far away from me so we cant meep up that often.. What should i do about these things?

I did many mistakes that night..
1.I couldve gone for the Fclose, she even grabbed my ass on the dancefloor and shit.. But i was NOT in the moment at all, i was fucking confused.
2.And i didnt talk that much...
3.She was leading me when we moved..
4.And one thing that was kind of bothering was that she had to do these smoke pauses.. So like after every 10 min she left me like standing there and i didnt know what to do and she went for a smoke session..
So What do you guys think??? Help me if u notice i did something wrong...
Author:  TonyFerrara [ Thu Jul 23, 2009 6:02 am ]
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I'm no expert at this but from what you explain in your field report it looks like the
girl was trying to pick you up rather than you trying to get her.

When you told asked her to go upstairs with you and she forced you on her, that basically means that you had a very high chance of fucking her. Rather than making out for 10 minutes you should of transitioned from making out to fucking, maybe using Styles - Phase Shift or something like that but anyways to me it sounded like you could of got more from that. Good job on getting the first kiss though. 8)
Author:  kerrgowg [ Thu Jul 23, 2009 10:09 am ]
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Thanks for the reply.. Couldnt find anything that goes from kissing to fucking in Styles - Phase Shift?

But how come she doesnt message me that much if she was that interested in me?
Author:  fatalclaw [ Thu Jul 23, 2009 11:21 am ]
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forget about the messages, just call her and ask her out, then go to ur place
Author:  kerrgowg [ Fri Jul 24, 2009 4:32 pm ]
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Okay. So ive talked to her and things are getting more interesting.
But one thing im wondering is how to go from kissing to fucking in a smooth way? Should i just try to remove her clothes while we make out or what?
Author:  kerrgowg [ Sat Jul 25, 2009 9:01 pm ]
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Cmon guys really need some help before i see her, which is soon, about the things i mentioned... Need your help
Author:  StellarPUA [ Sun Jul 26, 2009 1:36 am ]
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Give Style's Evolution Phase-Shift a read, and maybe something in there will be to your advantage.

http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/r ... shift.html
Author:  kerrgowg [ Sun Jul 26, 2009 11:54 am ]
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Ive already said that i cant find anything in Style's Evolution Phase-Shift that says how to go from kissing to fucking..
Author:  trixsta [ Sun Jul 26, 2009 8:49 pm ]
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Just escalate from kissing :S it's really not that hard... then if she gives you LMR deal with it.

http://www.seductiontuition.com/vin-dic ... adder.html

Few tips for you.
Author:  thelenzel [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 10:53 pm ]
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This isn't PUA material.
This is just a girl being physically attracted to you.
I didn't saw any game at all, she was just in for the night. Probably drunk or something.
But not PUA definetely.
Author:  thelenzel [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 11:01 pm ]
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Quote:
Thanks for the reply.. Couldnt find anything that goes from kissing to fucking in Styles - Phase Shift?

But how come she doesnt message me that much if she was that interested in me?
Because (From your report)... you didn't gamed her. You didn't made her want to see you again other than for your looks. Yeah maybe you're hot and what not, but probably she didn't saw more material in you than your looks, so she was only interested on a possible one night stand ...
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