So here's my first sarging experience and where I'm at now:
my friend knew a group of girls and introduced me to them. When he first introduced me, I pretended to be texting on my phone and took a second to finish before talking to her.
Right after introductions, I ignored her for a bit. Then, while the target was talking to my friend I told the obstacle that "I had been ignoring her friend and was wondering if I could talk to her for a bit". The obstacle said that the target has a bf, and I replied with "I don't want to talk to her bf, I want to talk to her". The obstacle then said that guys have been hitting on the target all night . . blah blah blah. I said that I'm not that kind of guy and that I just wanted to talk to her (was this a mistake?). The obstacle agreed to me talking to the target so I did so.
Since I was already introduced, I didn't bother with an opener and instead talked some fluff, waiting for a good opportunity. This opportunity came when I negged her (I don't remember exactly what I said, I was pretty drunk
I know this is a mistake as well) and she denied it. So then I said "I bet I know more about you then you know about yourself". She didn't believe me, so I asked her to sit down with me, which she did. I then did the cube game, which I was about 95% accurate. The target was eating it up and loving it, as was the obstacle 
who joined us after awhile because bar close was approaching. Half way through the game, the bouncers told us to leave because it was after bar close. I got up and started to leave without waiting for her. On my way out, I talked to the doorman (who is a friend) to DHV. Outside, I was talking to some other friends when the target approached me. We got right back into the game and afterwards she asked me if I knew any other games. Instead of being a 'dancing monkey', I told her to give me her # so that we could hang out another time. She agreed, and I put her first name into my phone (to show that I remembered it) then handed her the phone and told her to put in her digits. She then asked for my number, which I gave her. I then said that my friends were waiting for me and that I had to leave. One thing I forgot to mention was that she remembered my name, first and last, when she was putting my number into her phone .. as well, she gave me 2 hugs during the night. I considered these as IOI's.
The next day, which was Thursday, I texted her and said "I hope you're putting your newfound personal insight to good use". She replied with "haha you bet I am!". I didn't text her back.
The day after that, which was Friday, I texted her and said that "So here's the deal: tomorrow night a group of us are going to Boston Pizza for a patio party, and then downtown to the bars. You, your friends, and your 10 foot cube (inside joke from the cube game; negged her for having such a big ego) should join us. She said that she had to work until 9, but would be going to the bars afterwards. I didn't text her back.
Saturday night at about 1:00 am (so sunday morning hah), she texts me "where u at", and I replied with "the mid-area of Cecil's" (a local bar). She doesn't text back, but a half hour later she walks up to me and we talked for maybe a minute before her friends dragged her away. I didn't see her for the rest of the night, and while I was walking home I texted her to "pick a number between 1-4" and "don't tell me what number you picked". I was attempting to do the number game via texting to see how it would work out. She didn't text back .. lol
Comments and critique would be much appreciated! Also, what would be a good next move?
cheers
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