I have been friends with a particular female for close to a decade. I have reached a boiling point and have consciously decided, after years of flip flopping on the subject, to F-close this girl.
I have made it painfully obvious what my intentions are now. I've stopped answering the phone every time she calls, and started telling her I'm busy or forget to call her back. She does have a BF but he won't last long, she's looking for excuses at this point.
I'll keep posting my progress, realistically this should be an "in and out" scenario
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