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FR++ One Night in Gaum - lost to LMR
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Author:  eskwire [ Sun Jun 28, 2009 6:25 am ]
Post subject:  FR++ One Night in Gaum - lost to LMR
took a recent trip to Japan with a layover in Guam.

A friend of a friend set me up with with this girl in Guam. We had been emailing back and forth for a while and we made plans to meet up at 8 pm, which basically makes it a blind date.

For those of you who don't know much about Guam - it's a tropical island inside of the USA, about 3,000 miles south west of Hawaii.

The girl I met up with is a sold HB - recent college grad, works out a lot, nice body, cute smile, blue eyes, brown hair.

We made plans to do the 'slingshot', which is a machine that catapults you about 300 feet into the air and gives you the feeling of going into a free fall. The slingshot was a 20 minute walk from our meet up spot so it gave us some time to talk.

The HB and I both lived/live on tiny tropical islands - her Saipan, me Pohnpei, so we had a lot to talk about. Or rather, we had a lot to bitch about. There is really a lot of things that are frustrating about living on tropical island because the communities tend to be very small and gossipy.

We were able to connect over the common experience, and the slingshot was a real rush. I couldn't tell if I had much sexual attraction, but we were making good friends right off the bat. After the slingshot we went to a dive bar, and she mentioned something about enjoying doing shots of tequilla. So after two rounds I suggested we do a shot and bounce to someplace else she agreed and we walked to another bar.

She was up for another round. We had run out of things to talk about by now - we'd been hanging out for a good two hours so I started to point out couples and asked what she thought of them. Of one couple I pointed out, she thought the guy was a pro footballer from australia and he had brought his hot g/f along. I like asking girls what they think about other good looking couples that appear to be having fun because I think it calibrates them to want that - to be part of a good looking couple. I got a tab for $46 - I know drinks are expensive in Guam, but that much? We had some good laughs with the waiter - he had screwed up the check with the people sitting at the table next to us. $12 later we were out of the bar and I suggested we go someplace we could dance. (This could have been a bad situation - no one likes to see arguments over money, and usually the waiters are right - but I diffused the problem in front of her effectively and amicably and showed her I was right and the waiter was wrong, which is a DHV)

She suggested a dance club about four miles away from where we were. Neither of us had a car, so I hailed a cab. $28.75 later we arrived four miles down the road (ouch - cabs are pricy in gaum). The bar was a Chamorro bar for 20-somethings. Chamorro is the native ethnicity in guam. We were the only Haole's (white people) at the bar. They had a live band that was just starting up and nobody was dancing. We had another drink, and I think my target was getting tipsy, she suggested we dance even though nobody else was. We went to the dance floor and everyone - everyone stared staring at us. I brought her close to me and she draped herself around me - the first effective kino of the night. We got up close to the band, and they were happy to have people dancing so the band members started smiling at us and encouraging us to dance (DHV, from the band).

Other people started dancing around us and we danced for a good hour. My target very close to me the whole time. We made out a little bit on the dance floor.

It was getting close to 2 a.m. and about time to hit the road. There were no cabs in sight. I told my target that I was sharing a hotel room with my mom and dad (the truth) and I didn't want to sleep in the same room as them. Could she put me up for the night?

"Absolutely not." She said - as if she was waiting for me to ask.

I countered: "Look, we're not going to have sex, we're not going to hook up - I just need a place to crash, I don't want to barge in on my parents at 3 am, besides, they have a flight to catch at 6 am, so I'm going to wake them up and they're going to wake me up and it isn't going to be pretty"

"well, okay, but we're not going to hook up" she said.

Awesome! But we couldn't find a cab - and a police officer got mad at us for walking in the street. (we were the only people around who WERE NOT drunk driving, and the jerk was mad at us?). So I was like - screw it, we're going back to club and I'm going to offer someone from the club $20 to give us a ride home. My plan worked to the T and some locals gave us a ride to her place.

At her place we climbed into bed but she wouldn't let me take my clothes off. We hooked up - but she refused to undress me. She kept saying "I feel like a slut" - and I didn't have a good enough counter to diffuse the situation.

I tried something like "You're not - you're having a good time, and no one cares what you are doing right now."

and "you should just take breath, relax, and enjoy yourself. Just do what you feel comfortable doing."

I never tried to take my own clothes off, and didn't force anything. After messing around until around 5:30 am we both fell asleep and there was no f-close.

All and all it was an awesome night - and sometimes you just don't get to close. I think it may have been one of those nights.

Do you guys have any tips for getting over LMR?
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