Hi Guys,
I am 28 but still a virgin. I think I am quite picky. May be that's the reason. I have been out with two of my friends. They are about 10 years older to me. Following what David D says "Pick brain of successful people", I hang out with them. So, I was in a club with these two guys. We always get free entry because club owner knows my friends. That is a huge social proof, I guess
. I will post one of my field report today. FR++: There were lot of girls. I approached a 2 set. They are like HB4.5 and 5. So, I asked HB4.5 if I can borrow her HB 5 friend for a minute with a smile. She agreed. So, I took her with me and stood near the dance floor. Now, my AFC braind kicked in and bore the hell out of her. I had nothing to talk. I was asking her if she likes coming to this place and blah, blah, blah...So she said after some time that she had to go. It was a disaster. I made a few guy friends too for social proof. After a few minutes, I approached another set of HB 4, 5, 4.5. There was this fat girl, I approached who is HB 4. I thought, I will ask her to introduce me to her other friends. So she was asking me if I am interested in HB5. But, out of nowhere, I blurted, that I am interested in her. Damn it. She asked me if I smoke. I said no. But, I came out with her out of the club. She was smoking and giving me shit tests but IOIs too. Though she was quite intelligent, but I was not at all interested. She even told me that I am too old for her. I thought, what the hell, I am not taking her home anyway. After smoke, she asked me if I want to have a mouth freshner. I said, I am fine. I knew, she wanted to kiss. I thought wtf, so we kissed. She told me that she wants to go home.. It became hillarious. her mouth freshner came into my mouth. I am like yuck...So I politely told her that lets go inside the club and join our friends. Meanwhile, my friends were gaming her friends and got blown away pretty bad. I didn't know about that. Just as I was about to go in, she met her friends and I saw two guys whom I met before. One of the guy was talking with the HB 5. I introduced him to HB4 and said I need to go inside to talk with my friends and brb. Once me and my friend came out, as HB4 was nowhere to be seen, I thought of number closing HB5. I asked her for her number which she gave me readily but told me not to share with my friends. I had HB4 numbers already. So got two numbers but as I was not into them. They were useless to me. I am really into blonde HBs. But, I think, I made a rookie mistake of saying that I am interested in HB4. I would have certainly got laid that night. HB4 texted me around 12.30am if I am still around. But, I didnt reply. Next day evening, she texted me again that her friend told me how I got her number which is actually fake. I called that number and HB5 picked up so, she really gave her actual number to me.
My questions -
1. I still have approach anxiety. Once I am in a pub or club, I start talking with guys so that I can use them later to show social proof to girls if required. Do you guys think, this is ok?
2. Also, sometimes, I ask names of the girls rightway. During the night, I high5s with them every now and then just to show others that I am not needy. For that I have to ask names more than once sometimes. Do you think, this affects my game?
3. I am not sure, if I am on the correct path of FC a hot blonde? I live with roomates, so I can't take a girl home. Is there any other option? Should I ask her if she wants to me to her home or something?
Any advice?
Thanks.