hi, i met up with an hb last night(she was in my class at secondary/senior school). we hadnt seen each other in about 15 years.
i havent been sarging for a while now so i felt the skills i had developed were very rusty as well as me falling back into afc territory.
we had been fluff texting earlier over a few days before the meet, real light hearted with some slight sexual inuendo, nothing heavy, good fun.(she commented that she likes the funny thing 'a lot' and how she hoped i was like that in real life).
however, i have not been in the field for a while and with her earlier texts about how she liked the funny thing i found myself stuck in the trying to be funny frame all night. she was giving me signals, twirling her hair, neck to one side, eye contact, but i found i could not escalate into a more serious frame at all. shes quite a timid girl but i found she was even making slightly suggestive sexual comments at which i could not/would not use to amp up the heat. (i was drinking a little and i did feel it go to my head so i know i wont be doing that again-major mistake on my part, best just sticking to 2 maybe 3 at most from now on...pre match nerves i guess)
the night went o.k i guess(more a friends frame than anything) and she said she wants to meet me again, so i would like to know from you guys, how should i approach day 2. i want to show her i like her in a sexual way, and that im not just wanting to be her friend....i feel ive taken a massive backward step by not keeping at this.
cheers for any suggestions in advance
dp
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