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| Author: | Viper88 [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 7:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | NEED HELP! gettin with a friend |
I saw some pick up text lines in some forum here and decided to use it to one of my friends.. It says somethin like "aliens came and starts abducting good looking people! I guess you will be safe, I just want to say goodbye" she laughed and kept telling me I was funny and great.. we went on and shes still laughing.. then I asked her so watsup with this new guy u talkin now.. blah blah.. then i said, then that means i need to get in with you first before you guys starts to get serious.. and theeeen.... thats when it got uncomfortable... wtf i should have never did it.. lol now shes sayin shes uncomfortable.. i was like why ur not interested with me? and shes like, well ur my friend.. what do i do now???? i dont want us to be uncomfortable.. |
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| Author: | Sheer Con [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 2:46 am ] |
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sorry dude but you really messed that one up and should probably abandon hope with this particular girl. I'm being blunt but it's the truth. The only thing you can do is learn from your mistakes. what have you learned? well this is what you should have learned. 1. When you asked about the other guy she was talking to, you were already showing interest and even jealousy. 2. You asked her if she was attracted to you. BAAAD. First of all you're putting her on the spot for a yes or no answer. Never do this to a girl. Don't ask. Just assume she is attracted to you. 3. Asking her this made her uncomfortable which lead her to verbalize that you are in the "friend zone" and once that's been verbalized, you're completely screwed because it's further cemented in her mind. All you can do is learn from your mistake and do better with the next girl. Don't show interest like that especially so early. and never show neediness. good luck. |
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