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| Author: | Muddy [ Sat Jun 13, 2009 9:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | First FR 6/11 |
Just to start out: I'm a 25 year old AFC that generally has no trouble attracting women. I have been in a string of LTRs since I was 14 that included plenty of sex, etc. I've always been fascinated by real life friends that could go to a bar and come home with a half dozen numbers, eventually sleeping with several of the women they had met relatively quickly. Trying to analyze their game boggled my mind because they didn't say or do anything that I wouldn't have... They just didn't have the same AA as me. Luckily I'm relatively good looking enough that girls open me (including all but one of the 6 long term gfs I've had.) Reading books like The Game, and Sperm Wars has really changed my outlook on relationships, and driven me to live the life that I feel is more natural. While I'm constantly in serious relationships, I don't really have any DESIRE for anything serious, and I'm an awful boyfriend because I want to and would get on any hot girl that walked by. So after much trolling, etc I've decided to take a leap and work to become a PUA. Thursday night I rolled to the club with my boy Ron Jero to meet some girls that he said put us on a list to get in. I met the girl Ron Jero was trying to get at-- she's got a boyfriend who is buddies with Ron, but he's still trying to f-close her anyway. We'll call her HB6 (on my scale, not his.) And her friend, HB7 (Cute, perfect teeth but a little thick for my taste) I try to wing for him but HB7 had met our friend MoP the night before and kept asking where "her boyfriend MoP" was. I talked to her awhile and figured out it wasn't going anywhere, since she seemed too into Mo and also seemed like I wasn't her type. (Being the lone white guy in the group and with her having a case of the "I grew up in the suburbs so now I'm rebelling by only dating black guys") We all went outside and I got introduced to the rest of the group. HB8 was with them, but she was super young and looked scared/cold (I couldn't tell which) After some AMOG pulled HB7 (I didn't mind. He can occupy the obstacle and I'll go find someone that interests me) I looked over at HB8. She kept smiling at me but looked terrified. I opened her and ended up practically interrogating her (felt like a huge AFC) because I kept getting short answers (even with open questions.) But her facial body language showed she was into me and wanted to talk, she looked so nervous and scared I thought she might shit herself. She was 19 and said she didn't get out much, which I believe based on her nervousness. I went back in and an HB9 walks up and runs game on me! She gave me the "You're pissing me off" opener LOL. When I asked why she told me because I wasn't dancing with her. So I start dancing with her and this girl is a freak. I was running my hands up and down her sides and she grabs me by the wrist and practically shoves my hand up her ass. I was shocked, but rolled with it because she had a nice body. She kept constantly putting my hand on her ass and squeezing it asking me if I liked her body... This was all too much for my AFC self. Then she grabs my rum and coke out of my hand and drinks it. And turns to me and asks when I'm getting another drink. I say "Why? So you can drink it all?" She says "Yeah. I rubbed my ass all over you for 10 minutes. You could at least buy a drink." I said "The way you were touching me, you should buy me a drink." and she got pissed and left with her friend to try to find some other dude to pay for her night out. I'm not that guy. On the way out The HB8 that was scared came over to say "goodbye" which was about all she said since she was soooo awkward. Afterward HB6 and 7 came over to Ron Jero's place to smoke up, but they had gotten a ride from some AFC who decided he was coming in with them, and spent the whole time rubbing HB7's feet. Being a 5th wheel I felt I should leave, but realized it wasn't going anywhere that night for ron anyway, so I just stayed until they "had to get up for work in the morning" so I could discuss what did/didn't work with Ron. So I learned a lot, but questions I have left: 1. Chick is super into an AFC friend of mine, who isn't feeling her too much-- how do you get her to be willing to talk to you without bringing up your friend she met last night? I mean she tried to call him 3 times and he told her he was married with 4 kids (lie) 2. How do you get a chick that obviously likes you and wants to talk to you to relax and open up? Obviously I have to build comfort and rapport, but hard to do when she responds with a sentence at best. 3. Did I handle drink-digger properly? All in all not an awful first night sarging. I did open the scared girl, and I was scared to do it myself so it was probably the epitome of awkwardness. Got grinded on by an HB7 that wants to fuck my friend and an HB9 that wants to drink my drink... At least I interacted with people, right? I talked to Ron Jero about the community (He knows nothing of the PUA community... just a natural) and he seems like he might be receptive to sarging together and learning more polished game. So that looks promising. I also had a more successful (but dangerous) outing the next night. I'll post an FR of that when I get a chance. |
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