You are right on the money man, thanks. I do worry about my "rep" at home too much which leads to me not being the same cat. I will try the relaxing and visualization technique the next time I go out as well! I will keep you posted on the results
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| Author: | coolguy21 [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 6:24 am ] |
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Every time I go away on vacation, I seem to have a different persona. A quick example as to what I'm talking about...The other day I was on vacation in a big city and went out for the night. To sum it all up, I was on FIRE!! I was talking to every single girl in the clubs I went to, with each getting positive results in the process. Not being scared of anything and without hesitation--taking photos, getting numbers, kiss closing, etc just as a PUA would do. I cannot repeat not even close to the performance of my "alter-ego-vacation-guy" at home. Does anyone else have this problem and what can I do to fix it? |
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| Author: | Prince_Obi [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 8:27 am ] |
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I think it's the fact that on vacation nobody knows you whilst at home you are probably worrying about your reputation. That's where the "I don't care what others think" mentality should come in handy. Also on vacation you are more relaxed and that leads to more confidence and better results. Try to imagine yourself being the pimp on vacation again whenever you go out and think about the great feeling you had and try to relax. It's all in the head man, just set the right mindset. Oh and also analyse which things leaded to your success on vacation so that you can repeat that. |
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| Author: | coolguy21 [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 5:36 pm ] |
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You are right on the money man, thanks. I do worry about my "rep" at home too much which leads to me not being the same cat. I will try the relaxing and visualization technique the next time I go out as well! I will keep you posted on the results
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| Author: | BenedictMSmith [ Thu Jun 04, 2009 7:03 pm ] |
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steel frame. know that YOU are that man when you're out of town. zip code does not affect your mental state. remember how you felt when walking on new streets, know that you actually have better chances in familiar waters. |
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