I was out a few nights ago and I ran into a girl one of my hallmates used to date freshman year (four years ago). She talked to me I and then she gave me her phone number and told me that we should hang out. She is probably a 9 and the hottest girl that has shown interest in me. So I put my double your dating, and "the game", which I am currently reading to use. I waited a few days but instead of asking her for coffee I decided to go Salsa Dancing. I am Latino and I use a wheelchair so I knew this was an avenue that I could use to my advantage. I can spin and move a lot easier than most guys and I figured it would give me a good shot. So we went and she was one of the better looking girls in the club. I danced with her all night and she started sitting on my wheels and grinding me. She let me hold her and rub her body and things were going good. Then after it was all over she came back to my apartment. She was in my room, and I froze. I just didn't know how to get her to interact with me and honestly the IOI's were not clear. I felt so helpless after trying to do well and here I was stuck.
Here's some of the things I think I did wrong:
1. I was too sexual with some of the inferences, I think it might have turned her off.
2. I bought her a drink.
3. Although I was making her laugh her attention seemed to move around instead of focusing on me.
4. I froze
Here are some things I think I did right:
1. I told her my job was a professional lap dance instructor
2. I did work in some cocky funny negs (or at least she was laughing)
3. I threw in references to current events (aka Lindsey Lohan and alcohol)
4. I told a good story about how my chair broke while I was racing it down the biggest hill on my campus.
If anyone has any suggestions for improvement, or if anyone can give me some ideas on how to use the wheelchair to my advantage it would be much appreciated.
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