OK guys, maybe not a field report at all, maybe I should post this on a different section. but anyways. ( ITS A LONG ONE,PLEASE READ TRU )
A couple months ago, i got picked up by a girl (HB8) then she quickly introduced a friend of hers to me (HB6). Thing is that HB6 saw me and she felt like having me that night.. I wasnt out to sarge her, and since HB8 had a BF I went with HB6 ,altough i wasnt feeling her and didnt even liked her that much. We made out and exchanged phone numbers later.
A couple days later, she texted me with the classic " do you remember me hun? lets go out my king, im free sunday night blah blah, please answer. blah blah"... I wasnt really that into her so i texted her a couple msgs liek.. " i do remember ya, blah blah i cant make it sunday im bussy but lets re-schedule blah blah.. se ya later"... Now i thought that she would pick on that as an indicator of Disinterest since in my msg i didnt set a date or time for our encounter, i just wanted to diss her with out sounding too harsh but During the following weeks she sent me txt mgsg almost every day, called me on the phone at night, invited me to a lot of places... But again, i just limited myself to send a few "i cant make it blah blah" polite msgs... and later I stoped answering her msgs or calls at all.
I was more into HB8 since the moment she introduced herself to me she gave me lots of IOIS, but we never exchanged #s. Later Hb6 gave my # to HB8 and she called me saying that her friend HB6 was so into me, and a bit sad cuz i didnt return any of her calls blah blah....Then i did some Phone Game with her, talked with her for about 10 minutes on the phone, negd her and gave her IOIs, and it worked. The HB8 picked up on that very well, and said " the number where im calling from is mine blah blah... hope to see ya soon blah blah"... then she gave me her MSN, and we chatted for a bit a couple of times."..
She gave me lots of IOIs tru msn and txt msgs till finally she surrendered =P...
Yesterday she said that she was alone in town ( since shes not from my city )
and that she wanted to go out, she gave me her number again and told me to call her to arrange something and meet up.
We went out yesterday, she was dressed really hot, givving me lots of IOIs, holding my arm and hand, but then .. she looked really nervous.. as we walkd around to find a bar, she seemd to be enrvous, and I asked her, and said that she and her BF broke up a couple of weeks ago and was kinda sad about it. but she didnt care. we went to a first bar. but her mind was like somewhere else.. she never seemd to be part of whatever conversation we were having, then the next minute, she would be all touchy, i escalated kino fast, hand hold, arm touch, leg touch ( she was wearing sexy shorts) etc etc.. and making some small talk.. and then again, she would be like all nervous and thinking of something else...
And thats the way it was all night, like she was coming back and forth from one emotional state to another. But she was a good date, then we started talking about sex, yes, pretty hardcore small talk, and kino a lot, but again, the same shit, suddenly she would seem to be "not interested" in me and her look kinda drifted away. I was having trouble keeping her attention and she was like this, so weird. She said that she was a pretty decent girl, that she wasnt much into ONS, she kinda said that I was her friend ( altough not in the FriendZone cuz we were kinoing all the way )..... and I said to her not to trust me as her friend, cuz she didnt knew me, and that kinda turned her on for a bit and got me back out of that "you are my friend" pre-zone... anyways, i didnt go for the kiss(my bad).. she was acting a bit weird, she sometimes look bored and sleepy and other times look like she wanted to FUCK hard... she got me confused ( for a while i lost control of the frame )
Gotta tell ya,i got bored of that attitude, and even tough she was givving me huge IOIs, and sexual inuendos and stuff. I was getting a bit turned off by her mental coming and going. I started to loose a bit interest in her, and to make a bit of a jealousy line, i started bumping accidentally...
into other girls around the bar, and even a girl that was givving me that HUGE "I want you " look but i couldnt just go there and sarge her, I would have lookd pretty bad just leaving my date there.. jaja... ( I REGRET THAT NOW).. HB8: are you having fun??, do you want to go somewhere else?
Bass: nah were cool ( we were not )
HB8: ahm im staying at a friends place now (girl friends ), , id like to invite you but they are over there..
Bass: well lets go then right now,doesnt matter if your friends are there.
HB8: yeah i know, but since im not from around they just invited me to stay with them, i dont want them to be upset if i bring a guy over to their place
Then started kino on her again and some cold reading and stuff.
but then i was like bored that she would have a weird attitude again, like, she was into me,but at the same time didnt want to go any further than just kino. like if all the sexual inuendos and small talk was just to test me. I know she was feeling me, but she didnt gave herself up.
She found some other friends of hers at the bar and she went and talked to them, while I told her that i was going to the mens room, I bumped into a friend of mine from work, we started chatting and looking around other girls in the bar, getting lots of IOIs...
Then a girl comes over and asks for a cigarrette, my budy gave her one, she said thanks and looked at us and she stepped back..to prevent her from going away, i did STYLEs gambit.. quickly looked insode my pocket for a piece of dirt or whatever and and hide it inbetween my fingers and then stoped the girl (HB8)
BASS: hey you, come over here ( pointing at her head,.. she comes )
I fake-pull the piece of dirt out of her hair, and she looks at it, and laughs.
I place it on her hand and make some small talk and took it from there.
Her brother was there, also her two sisters came over, me and my buddy were the center of the set.. we negged, we gamed, and 5mintues later she was leaving with her brothers, i got her #.. she leaves
then comes the other girl i was with before... we left the bar, made some small talk, laughed a lot, took a cab, left her home, she didnt invite me in, i didnt ask or forced any " can I use your bathroom" like gambit, we agreed we would meet later. I left. No Fclose....
I know i missed some things, like to go for the kiss, and maybe be more forcefull to get in to her place, or maybe to have some closure at the bar, like the kiss or totalle hit on her like " i want you.. i like you blah blah..." i dont know.. she kinda confused me to be honest.
I know im gonna Fclose on her soon because eventough I didnt close, i built huge rapport at all moments and thats something she liked.
I apreciate any comments, any similar experiences??... critiques, suggestions, comments, advice.. anything... Peace !