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Author:  Baller [ Sun Jul 01, 2007 10:46 am ]
Post subject:  My First Solo Sarge
So tonight i built up my courage to go out and do some field testing. I've been reading "The Game" and learning other things i could to further my knowledge in picking up. Critique me please i wanna hear how i can change or do things differently.

When i first entered the club i was smiling just in case anyone was noticing me. The next thing i did was made my way around the bar to see if i knew any familiar faces but didn't see anyone i remotely knew. I then made my way to one of the bars and ordered myself a beer. After scoping things out for a few seconds and seeing there were some sets I could work i made my way to a table to relaxe for a minute.

I called my friend who i wanted to wing for me that night but he couldn't make it. This is where i got some AA and was backing myself into a corner with no idea how i could or should approach any of the sets i could see. Thinking i was going to fail i look at the bar to see this HB6 who was alright but she gave me a look herself so i gave her a good smile. She then came to me (yes i think this was dumbshit luck) and proceeded to conversate with me:

Her: so are you all alone?
Me: Nah I'm here to meet up with some friends.
Her: Oh ok you looked so lonely over here.
Me: Oh what me? I just have friends who can't be on time thats all.

We continued to talk and then she thru out some IOI's and stood me up to dance with me right there at the table. She ended up being all over me when this guy came up and turned out it was someone she was there to meet with off of myspace. So i didn't want to let up and gave her kino and more conversation to keep her interest on me. Well at this point she said she had to go to the bathroom so i just bailed and went to another side of the club to see if she was interested enough to search me out.

Not too long later i see her and one of her friends come up to me and then she introduces me to her friend as we start talking again. At this point i would add she is doing heavy kino on me. I decided to try something i learned from style which is the 5 questions game. I explain to her how it works and make a small wager of who looses buys the other person a drink. Well right off she screws up and looses but i gave her a free pass and we laugh and have alot of fun doing it. I end up getting her a drink but just before i go buy it i ask..

Me: before i go grab your drink i want to ask you something.
Her: oh yeah whats that?
Me: do you want to kiss me?
her: maybe.
Me: well lets see then.

Man i was so nervous just asking straight out but it worked! We ended up making out for a little bit and i then went to the bar and got our drinks. Well we talk some more in the night and i end up talking up a 2 set of older ladies just to show some of my social skills to her. I end up giving her a line saying my idiot friends decided to go to a different club and i had to bounce out but i wanted to continue what we had started so we exchanged #'s and for good measure i kissed her some more.

By the way i would like to add i had some minor peacocking in which i wore a necklace and she was messing with it alot. Such a good item to have to see when shes flirting and being attracted to you ;) . Its long i know but my first solo ever and i wanted most the details in there. Feedback and any criticism is FULLY welcomed! thanks!
Author:  zecks33 [ Sun Jul 08, 2007 9:50 am ]
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Seemed alright to me man, good work!
Author:  Baller [ Sun Jul 08, 2007 7:00 pm ]
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Thanks for the reply. Man i knew i should have gone further but i didn't want to push it cause, nothing really happened after that night.
Author:  simp|e [ Sun Jul 08, 2007 7:44 pm ]
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dude! nice! if that was your first solo sarge, only greater things are to come.
Author:  BetaMale [ Sat Jul 14, 2007 1:03 pm ]
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Awesome job man. Solo sargeing is tough but it you played it well.
Author:  whadthfxup [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 4:59 am ]
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HAPPY HUNTING

J :evil:
Author:  Glaze [ Mon Jun 09, 2008 6:00 am ]
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For sure man. The main thing I liked is that you got something from her BEFORE you got her the drink. That is a DHV in itself. Keep it up.
Author:  J.U.C.E. [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 6:48 pm ]
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great job my dude! thats how you make lemonade out of lemons!

Dont take this one for granted. It is not the norm for a girl to come up and start a convo with a guy who is singled out and alone in the club.

But again, great job!! :P
Author:  Orann [ Wed Jun 11, 2008 12:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My First Solo Sarge
I don’t want to sound like the critical one here; Sarging solo is HARD, especially for a beginner, But I saw some points on which I could give you some advice, so I might as well.

First up, The 3 Second rule. Learn it, and learn to love it.
As soon as you walked in, you should have looked for someone to open. a 6 sitting on her own is perfect for someone in your situation. I say this because being a 6, you shouldn’t be nervous, and you should be able to get right into it. By choosing a target that you don’t really want you allow yourself to just jump right in. As soon as you see a 2 set or 1 set that you think is approachable, DIVE IN!
By doing this, you gain massive social proof and some pre-selection that will make any future sets much much easier.

Once you get that single/double set attracted (If you don’t actually want them, skip A3), take one on each arm (if you can manage it, otherwise just walk with them) and say "let’s make some new friends". Walk around the bar until you see a target you'd like to open, and charge in with your new pivots.

This is a good model to follow (Mystery's by the way, Credit to him) when sarging alone. Hell, this is what you should do with a Wing too, then call him into the set later.

Another point might be to actually go through with making her buy the drink. This advice applies more when you haven’t k-closed her, but wither way it works. What you do there is make her invest resources in you. it makes her realize she likes you, and reduces your chances of flaking. If you can pull it off without appearing cheap, that is.

Anyway, all in all, great work! A k-close on your first solo-sarge is a brilliant result. Remember to open the first people you see (no matter what) and you'll do all the better next time.
Author:  RQ [ Fri Jul 04, 2008 1:18 am ]
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baller a k close is fresh no matter what let alone first solo sarge...i haven't worked up the guts to go solo yet so keep it up. Also orann gave good advice about the 3 second rule. THe more i see the 3 sec rule in action the more I become a believer
Author:  Macine [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 7:58 pm ]
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Good work man, but keep it up. Like the others said, going solo is hard, but you become so much better so much quicker. I go out solo a lot, and have had much success.

Just get talking with whoever is in the place and make a set a fallback set. Whoever, I normally pick a group of guys or whatnot. I start talking with the guys and get some common ground, then start pushing them to open sets, which they usually reply 'why don't you go do it'. So I do, and thier push helps me overcome any AA I might have. Then I gain more respect in that set, and can get a few semi-wings usually.
Author:  Untouchable3 [ Wed Jul 09, 2008 6:30 pm ]
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She came on to you... nice 8) (lucky you :P) Good work man.. awesome!
Author:  Calaris3 [ Tue Jul 15, 2008 9:33 pm ]
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She came to you eh? (goes any buy myself a necklace)
Author:  Sandy86 [ Wed Jul 16, 2008 6:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Nice
I had a similar experience on my first solo night out (infact my first real opinion opener)..I did an opener on this blonde chick who I'd say is about an 9..Got her female opinion on whether she liked to be approached directly or indirectly, "Depends on who it is" and I said "Your looking at him" she smiled I introduced my self and asked for her number but she told me not to push it and smiled. She asked me to help her choose some songs for the juke box, and then I told her "I'm gonna go over to the bar but if you ever get the guts to come over and talk to me, then we'll talk" or something like that...Minutes later she invited me over to talk with her friends, I leave the bar with her and go to another bar down the street..

Later on that night we are getting so close on the bar stools that I can just tell this chick wants to fuck..She could not quit looking at my eyes and my mouth..(im a college student home for the summer) during this time she asks me if my parents would be okay with a girl sleeping over and I smiled and just shook my head (damnit I know I hate my self, but it wouldn't have worked out in our condo) Anyways the night ends with her telling me to put her number in her phone and to call her and by the way this chick is 28..6 years older than my self

Solo sarging takes some balls and I'd reccommend to anyone they find someone they can go out with rather than do this alone..Personally I like to approach women by my self but I'd prefer to have a friend around whom can keep me encouraged and accountable for approaching women.It helps to have someone around so you can make a game of it.

My only comment to the above post is good job on going out on your first night alone..The only reccommendation I have is that you should have taken her home that night..Getting numbers is great but if your at a bar and she's that into you, you don't want to lose the moment, and you need to strike while the irons hott..Somehow, someway get her back to your place before she wakes up the next morning and tries to give excuses to her self as to why she can't be slutty..If I had my own place I would have done this..
Author:  Stetson [ Wed Jul 16, 2008 9:23 pm ]
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Quote:
Me: Oh what me? I just have friends who can't be on time thats all.
Only one word to describe this. Respect.
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