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Author:  Un1k3 [ Sat Jan 31, 2009 10:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Failed K-Close
ok so i had a coworker of mine that ive been talkin to just on friendly terms but from what i got from her, everytime she see's me @ work i brighten her day and she just enjoys my company alot so i start a little C&F on her and was getting a great response i used a technique from swinggcat after she told me i was her fav person i said she was in my top 5, ive yet to tell her who da #1 person is hehe :) (she has a bf of 4+ years )
we go out last nite for some late dinner, but i couldnt really tell if she's diggin me as just a friend or something more, and i really dont have any bf destroyer techniques, she goes on most of the time bout how crappy her bf is and how she hasnt gotten any 4 over 2months, i guess i let her talkin bout her bf revert me 2 an afc mode anyway to really turn this around?
Author:  Chad99 [ Sun Feb 01, 2009 2:55 pm ]
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Yeh get some BF destroyer material worked out.
Get her out and again, let her put him down.

Then make a move on her... but if she is a coworker you better be careful depending on your work and stuff.
Author:  johnclemente [ Mon Feb 02, 2009 2:52 am ]
Post subject:  Boyfriend destroyer
Here is something I ran across you might benefit from.


Not Assertive in Bed:
“I’m sure he wants to please you sexually, but he can’t because he’s insecure. It’s like the guy with a really hot girlfriend who ends up cheating on her with some fat girl that is not nearly as attractive, since she makes him feel better about himself. It sounds like he has a case of unworthiness, but you should bear with it for awhile, I’m sure he’ll do better soon.”

Tell her this pattern. I havent field tested it yet. Havent had the oppertunity. Maybe you can try.

John C 8)
Author:  Un1k3 [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 10:27 pm ]
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thnx imma have 2 try that 1 seems to have nice potential :)
Author:  nicksta [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 4:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Failed K-Close
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i guess i let her talkin bout her bf revert me 2 an afc mode anyway to really turn this around?
Alternatively, it shows you don't care or you're cool with that.

One issue with girls with bfs, is that they like to party and be a little wild, then be domestic at home. They like to feel like they "still have it", even if their man isn't giving it to them.

If you let them, they'll encourage you just enough because it boosts their self-esteem "I still got it".

Talking to her about her BF only becomes LJBF behaviour if you become her "girlfriend". Talk about it, but to a point. You should really be trying to DHV, so you compare more favourably than her BF. But DHV in ways that aren't quite as obvious as you trying to compete with her BF. She'll spot that a mile off.

Many times it'll take a big event to dislodge a woman from a bad relationship. Don't get too hung up on her, keep in touch, but don't become the girlfriend.
Author:  Un1k3 [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 8:01 am ]
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well since she's a coworker she does see me how i act around other ppl there oh ya she's also 1 of my shift supervisors, i talk and get along with everybody @ work even the ladies that she knows are better looking then her so im sure i have a very high DHv w/ her
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