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Author:  Nerd Avenger [ Fri May 25, 2007 2:34 pm ]
Post subject:  man my night sucked

I edited to not to seem to boast. cause my life is not that great. i'v ehad some good times when it came to women and sarging. and life trying to be a great PUA.

basicly i'm not trying to brag. i'm just trying to paint a picture of how i've done the past year and few months.

when i first read the game it was good. it reinforced what i was already doing. but over a year later now ...

Now i picked up THE GAME to re-read it. and for some reason i decided to google for a PUA forum. and i found this site. i like it there is so much new things to learn. and more insight to NLP.

There is alot of good information here. and even i like reading alot of your stories. but since i joined, my game and closes has really gone down the tubes.

I think its becaues i'm thinking to much. i'm thinking if i'm doing the routines right. Or what comes next after i say this? or what would be a good neg for her? What opening do I use to break into this set? and when i do it just comes to me thinking too much for my own good.

like tonight I broke a girl set of 4 using something i mixed from what my friend said about me and what has been done here.

me; hey let me ask you girls a question. me and my friend want your opinion on something.
girls: o_O ?
me. ok what would you think if you were at your bf's house and found some of his ex gf's things there? what would you do? (instead of still being friends with his ex)
girl 1HB6- burn it
girl 2HB7- (just stood there smiling)
girl 3HB5- i couldn't find anything in his room it so messy.(i guess he she has a gf)
girl 4UG- i dunno (then she just repeated what girl 1 said. buti didn't think she'd run into that problem)[but she was good in the body, just not the face]

so i went on a little more asking how come and why. my brain was thinking of a way to neg the hb 7, but i couldn't come up with anything even slightly true. i thought of negging the HB6 bout thought if i did that she'd CB and become the bigest bitch after an answer like that (burn it). the UG and HB5 was not even worth negging.
me- my friend happens to be a girl and she asked me why i still have my ex's stuff in my place. ect. old photos of our trips, some other stuff.
HB6- burn it. ( the HB7 smiled politly, and the rest gave a laugh.)
I went on with my hypothetical questions about the topic for a couple mintues. going in a circle for answers. I was trying to justify why "I" had my ex-gfs things in my room and how its just stuff and harmless. I was trying to cover up my AFC Mess up. I could feel it getting sour, like quicksand i was just getting buried!

Just then the bouncer came to me saying eh Dean, and pulling me off to the side to talk privatly.... so i took the advantage to make my self look in demand and to DHV (look at me i know the staff, even the hottest waitress was talking and laughing with me and my wing for 20 mintues before i bothered talking to them. and they saw it all.). if that isn't some good DHV I don't know what is.

me- excuse me i have to attend to something.

the bouncer ended up asking me about my up coming promotion and to aks me if i saw a certain guy that was in a fight last week that snuck back into the club.

Imediatly after that my wing came back and started asking me something else about my promotion.

I stood there with my wing talking, siping my drink. i just couldn't think of anything else to say again to them. i was thinking about what to do next. The girls just stood there for a couple minutes talking before walking back into the club.

I didn't feel like anything was natural to me. I am now wondering where my mojo has gone. and i think thats not the way i opperate. even tho last year i used canned material as openers it felt more natural. I used the openers and used my own thing from there. I don't really neg, and i've been trying to lately and it just isn't working for me.

at the same time i know what i did wrong. i talked about MY EX. instead of trying to say it was about my fren. they probly thought i was dealing with baggage. either way it didn't come out right. I need to learn to flow with pre-meditated game and routines.

I need to work on my game grrr. i'm just venting now.

i need to study. anyone have this type of problem. just feel free to to give an opinion.

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