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| Author: | ChuMp [ Sat Dec 06, 2008 2:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | FR: Bald Chick |
Woo! So, I headed out to a bar downtown with the guys earlier this week. The guys and I hung around a pub nearby first to chat, discuss and such. There are definitely a range of guys. From the most pro I've ever seen to guys on their first night. I was the guy on his first night last week, so I made of point of making sure these guys were comfortable. One of them looked so rigid and uncomfortable, but after enough talk he chilled a little. Wasn't that bad of a guy after he loosened up a bit. We get to the club and the place is pretty sparse. Both in amount of people and density of fine girls. There were male strippers in a large curtained off area, so I could only guess thats where all the girls were. The strippers ended and the curtains were pulled back and we went on the prowl. I winged with a guy I had just met that night, but he wasn't new, so we did all right. We opened a set together that went really poorly. I wanted to try something new I'd been rehearsing in my head. "You believe in hypnotism?" "Oh? I wanna show you something real quick" *up spin, steal seat* "Haha, I just hypnotised you and stole your seat." I've heard something like it or someones done it already, so credit to them. The biggest problem I had was there was no time constraint, no neg, no DHV, no comfort or attraction and to top it all off I got cockblocked. It was a poor routine to begin with and things just stacked on top of each other. I got a weird look from the 3 girls at the table and me and the guy decided to eject. Good move Haha. I opened another set solo and it went badly, but I figured it could only get better. I saw this very interesting girl at one point during the night and I knew I had to open her then or sometime during the night. She was probably 7-8 but her hair was shaved down almost to the scalp. It might sound weird but it looked pretty damn good on her. I came up with a quick opener in my mind and tried to get a good angle on her, but her friend was close in front of her, so I approached at a pretty poor angle, but it seemed to work out. We'll call her "Jesse". My bud winged her friend for me. *come in over her shoulder* Me: Holy crap! We have the same haircut! (semi-neg maybe? Haha) *laughs* Jesse: OMG, no way! Me: Why'd you decide to do that to your hair? (Neggish?) Jesse: I work as a nurse with kids who have cancer At this point I was like "My God". I trouble believing it, but who would shave their head for any other reason right? I didn't have time to think, but if it was a shit test I reacted poorly. Me: Holy! Seriously? Thats so cool. I shaved my head for cancer in high school. Jesse: Really? Thats cool. Me: Here, I got something to show you. I always carry my school ID with me from when my hair was super-long to show girls and get a reaction. Jesse: OMG. Thats you? Me: Yaah, I had a lot of hair to shave off eh? Jesse: Oh yah. Me: So, I didn't get your name. Jesse: I'm Jesse. Me: I'm ChuMp, nice to meet you. What are you celebrating tonight? She continued to tell me she was here with friends who knew the basketball team who where all celebrating. I was wondering why that guy kept giving me highfives all the time, must've thought I was on the team. Weird haha. She thought I was on the team too. I made fun of her for generalizing all tall guys as basketball players and told her I played football instead. Would that be DHV or try-hard? Not sure. A couple minutes of general chit-chat passed. Me: Hey Jesse, want to go dance? Jesse: Uh, sure. I just gotta tell my friends I'll be gone. It was my attempt at isolation. I'm not sure the dance floor is the best place to isolate to, but I tried. Jesse: Sorry, my friend wants to go find everyone else. Me: Oh, no worries. I'm gonna go find my friends too. Jesse: Ok, I'll come find you ok? Me: For sure. We'll play Where's Waldo! Jesse: Haha, you'll be hard to miss. My wing hadn't managed to get a hook into her friend, so the isolation didn't go over and I got cockblocked a second time that night. No biggy. She'll find me. I went and opened another set and found some people from high school I hadn't seen in a while and got a cheap hug out of it. Talked to my buddies for a while, got some advice on isolation and DHV then found her again. *pretending like "OMG what a surprise"* Me: You found me! Jesse: Heey! *she obviously had lots to drink since I last saw her* Me: I owe you a dance! Jesse: Totally! We danced on the floor with some other people. She had her back to me, but in a good way, if you get me. I had my hands on her hips, and would occasionally run a hand down her arm. I attempted to spin her at one point, but in the middle she wanted to stop and face me. I made the mistake and continued to spin her around. I tried to kino with confidence but I have little experience being this far. I wanted to move off the floor to go outside, cool off and bring her along to talk and get to know her. Me: I'm really warm. I'm gonna head outside. Come along. Jesse: Nooo, I'm gonna stay here, you can go though. Me: Nooo, come on outside. Jesse: Nooo, sorry. Me: You sure? *nod* Me: Ok I figure not enough attraction and/or DHV. And it was a pretty intense hoop to jump through. I think she just figured I was gonna try to make out with her right away. I really just wanted to know a bit more about her, I was definitely interested at this point. Now that I think about it, I'm not sure if I had enough IOI's at this point. I had the Eye Contact, Kino. But not much more then that. And what I had was pretty poor too. Oh well. I walked around, re-opened a couple old sets. They go nowhere. I tried to talk to a girl from school but she was just boring and lacking energy. Too shy for my tastes. I told her I'd find her later. I didn't. Haha. It's getting late so I decide to ditch. I got business in the morning too. I take one more crack at Jesse. I find her on the edge of the dance floor. Me: Hey Jesse! Jesse: Hey ChuMp! Me: I'm outta here. I'll see you later k? Jesse: Awww, Ok. *hug* Me: You sure you don't wanna take that trip outside? Jesse: Aww, no sorry. *smile* Me: Arrite, nice meeting you. *smile* Still the same problem, not enough attraction or comfort. Especially with a time lapse between. Probably too early and weird to be trying to isolate again. It was also pretty direct of me. I definitely broad casted my interest. I went out that night wanting to practice isolation, and I think I definitely got the practice I wanted, and I realized I need more practice in other areas. I should practice my DHV and attraction. By moving so quickly forward I tend to be forgetting the crucial beginning steps. I'm going to brush up on what exactly a neg is and how to use them appropriately. I also forgot to use False-Time-Constraints within the open. If anyone else noticed anything else worth mentioning please feel free to comment. Advise is allowed and encouraged. |
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| Author: | wisconsinman [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 1:59 pm ] |
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*Sighs* Well man that sucks, ill try and give you my two cents of the whole situation but bare with me because I am sure as hell no expert. It looks like you put her a little bit on a pedestal, and you can't ask a girl to leave with you or go away, because 1. That makes it her choice 2. If the girl is still unsure about you it's definitely gonna be a no. If your ever in a situation like this you should be like hey I want to show you something cool, and take her off the floor don't even look back it works like a charm. Anyways it looks like you played it well throughout the opener and midgame phase, I think your only problem is acting a little more Alpha and asserting yourself more. You didn't even have to go somewhere else hookup with her, you could have done it right on the dance floor, if you played your Kino right. But anyways man, best of luck to you and remember never second guess your self, the best way to get a girl is to just say fuck it all and go for it. You should done that when you were dancing with her because she was clearly giving you IOI's you even said she stopped when you spun her, thats a definite IOI for a kiss. Everyone screws up though no worrys man were only human. |
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