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| Author: | kentheman [ Sat Nov 29, 2008 10:40 pm ] |
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Hi all, I just got back from Euphoria Ministry Of Sound that's in Malaysia. There was an event today and not as many people as usual, but it was all good. I didn't get any number closes but I got some experience. I just started applying some of the stuff I've learned from The Game and these forums today but I didn't really intend to sarge, but I learned a lot of things. I'm still a newbie you see. Anyway, it started with me fetching my friend and then driving there. He also read The Game before me but he's never visited these forums so it seems I was more prepared. I was wearing a shirt underneath my Pierre Cardin coat which said "We Like It Rough And Dirty". I also brought my camera. When we reached there I saw my sorta-kinda-one-itis. She's a HB8.5. I admit I gave her an AFC reply by sms before to which she she gave me a lecture on Facebook and I guess she LJBF'd me. I so regret that. The wonderful thing it seems though was that she was still staring at me, which leads me to think about how true the saying about doing it twice with the same girl by sarging online and in real life is. I guess I haven't lost her. I sorta froze her out and greeted another friend who was nearby. Then I looked at her and kind of blinked (I intended to wink but yeah it didn't turn out right). Then I just walked away with my friend. We were waiting for a girl friend of ours HB6 to come because her friend could get us all in for free. I made friends with 2 guys I saw, thinking I could use them for social proof. Soon the others came and there was only one HB7.5 I guess. Keep in mind that I'm very, very picky about girls so I definitely know I'm not seeing 8's or 9's. I'm level-headed that way. We all went in. What I found amazing was how comfortable I was just making statements and bantering, instead of asking stupid questions like an AFC. Me and my friend were introduced to HB7.5. She was pretty hot I guess, she was quite pretty, but her teeth didn't do for me, and her English was poor-ish. At first I ignored her and chatted with my HB6 friend. Then I turned towards her: Me: How tall are you? HB7.5: 168cm Me: Really? *looks up while thinking. I'm about 175cm and she was standing about my height so it didn't make sense to me until* Oh yeah! You're wearing high heels! *looks at HB6 who was about my shoulder height* That means you're....No wonder! You're wearing high heels too! HB6: -_- *hits me* HB7: *laughs* That was my first neg already. I guess I didn't need to have an opener ready since we were introduced. For the next hour or so I've been slightly teasing and negging the HB6 but she was my friend so it was ok, I obviously didn't want any attraction to spark there. We were then brought to a private VIP room with the view of the dance floor below. Nothing happened for a while, I just bantered a bit, doing the cocky and funny by making fun of everyone, albeit not too harshly. Then I took out my camera and started snapping pictures with everyone. I took the opportunity to kino all the girls by putting my arm around them. Predictably they all jumped at the chance to snap pictures and kept checking if the pictures turned out right. I started snapping candid photos of HB6 and a few of the other girls when they were doing something and were unaware or weren't ready yet. They were like yelling at me and I got a laugh. The cocky and funny continued. We all then went down to the dance floor and I strut my stuff. My friend was with us for a while but while I didn't mean to, I guess I AMOG'd him and started dancing with all the girls. They were enthusiastic. I had a problem though and it was the kino when I was dancing with them. I never really got any meaningful kino going on there. There was one gay guy in the group who danced with me too but it was all cool and I made tons of jokes when I was dancing like pointing at a black girl's huge butt behind me. They kept stripping my coat off me and saw the words on my shirt "We Like It Rough And Dirty" and went nuts. See, I was trying to kino HB7.5 but I guess she was shy. It's not that she wasn't dancing with me but the kino was brief. I didn't know what to do and she didn't know what to do. Another friend of mine showed up and asked me who she was. Obviously he was smitten and I told him her name. Unfortunately he went from behind her and asked her for a dance but she declined. The whole time I saw my one-itis around the dance floor but I don't know if she noticed me. I'm sure she did at some point cos a few times that I saw her dancing her body was facing towards me although she was 10 feet away. I didn't see her again after that but it's ok, I'll bring it up when I see her again. Anyway, a bunch of non-attractive girls were also crowding around us a bit and I noticed they were looking at me too, if discreetly, so I guess I did something right. Anyway I told them I was going to go back to the VIP room. HB7.5 left earlier and was already there. This other dude in the group was obviously trying to chat her up but from all the stuff that happened at the dance floor, I guess she liked it and gave me IOIs and kept touching me. At this point I really wasn't trying to game her, but I thought why not? So I negged her a few times telling her how much of a pervert she was stripping my coat off me in the dance floor, to which she gave me that =p look. There was a period of silence (this is a problem. I have a problem transitioning. It takes time for me to make my next move), then I busted out my story about girls who think they're hot when they're not. Trying to DHV a bit. Me: What do you think about girls or guys who think they're hot when they're actually not? HB7.5: Gee I dunno. Me: Well, there was this one girl who was in my class. She was actually pretty ugly. HB7.5: *covers mouth & laughs* Me: But she wore makeup and had this crazy perfume on that smelled like bananas. HB7.5: =P Well they can't help it right? Me: Yeah but even if she does put makeup on it's not like it'll make a difference. Blablabla HB7.5: Blablabla. I couldn't really stretch out the story cos she was sympathetic towards the ugly girl I was talking about. It's a bit controversial. At times when I tell people this story, they either laugh uncontrollably or say I'm really mean in a serious way. Then once again a period of silence. And then I asked her if she wanted to try the cube. She said yes and based on her answers, I told her the small cube of hers represented her which meant she had low self-esteem and was a bit shy (It's crazy how true this is. I love the cube), that the few flowers which were close to the cube meant that she will have few children that will be very close to her, that the ladder with few rungs which were far away from the cube meant that she had few friends and they weren't very close to her (seems odd. She IS pretty hot. I figure she'd be surrounded by people), that the horse that was brown, big and strong represented her lover to which she squealed and laughed a bit. The other dude tried to talk to her by interrupting but she told him to wait, which was quite funny. I was ok with the guy too but I guess I also AMOG'd him. Finally, I told her the blue skies she envisioned meant that her life had no problems. She quite liked the cube. Anyway she had to leave early but I took one last photo with her and negged her a little on her pose. It was funny but I didn't attempt to number close her. Then the night went on and eventually we all left. I had to take care of my friend who drank too much because his one-itis made out with some foreigner a few days before. He clearly wasn't ready to be a wing. So I fetched him home and finally came here. It's already 6:30am as I write this but I'm so excited and satisfied. So here's what I thought of the night: Pros - Was able to pull off negs, DHVs, a bit of kino. - Instead of asking questions, I made statements which sounded cocky and funny. I'm naturally cocky and funny but I've never used it this much verbally. Starting was the difficult part but it all came out quite naturally once I started. - Got IOIs from target. I could've played the 5 lies game with her and possibly got a k-close out of that, but I didn't want to cause that kind of commotion with all the people in the room. - Most importantly I was in control of myself. I didn't panic and I ran quite a smooth game I think. Cons - Transitioning from openers, asking for opinions, DHV, and stuff was quite slow. I'm still not used to it yet but I feel I'll get better at them soon enough. - Didn't number close. I probably could have but I stopped gaming the HB7.5. Will probably see her again if I go out with HB6 and then we'll see what happens from there. - Biggest problem seems to be kino. I mean I got kino in but there was no real hand-holding or that sort going on. She wasn't resisting, but it seemed she was shy and I didn't know what to do about it. Anyway I guess I'm done with my post. Can I get some critique on how I did and advice on what I can improve on? Thanks guys! |
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| Author: | grant101 [ Sun Nov 30, 2008 12:15 pm ] |
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You should scrap that story dude, talking about girls you deem to be ugly is a DLV , and will make the girl feel insecure around you and will make it harder for you to build comfort with her. |
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| Author: | kentheman [ Sun Nov 30, 2008 12:23 pm ] |
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Thanks for the input man. I've been thinking it wasn't the best story to tell either since I got mixed reactions. |
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