Thursday, finally I decided to go out to this place called "Cielo" and get out of my confort zone. I found this place in the Time Out Magazine. As I am a tourist I didn`t know where to go but I remembered that TimeOut magazine in London is good for spoting where the locals go.
I was looking for someone around my age in the hotel to be my wing but couldn`t spot anyone and in one of this sightseeing tourist buses I found a guy but he was 16. Shit. So I decided to go alone.
There was no fuzz for going into this place, but in the queue I could´t spot any HB. But inside the place was a different story. I saw many 8 around.
I remembered to go in with a Smile in my face. At the begining I didn`t feel quite comfortable so I went to graba a drink. I didn`t want to go around the club in a predatory fashion. While I was asking for a drink I saw this two set with an 8 and a 7 but I didn´t open it.
I went to the dance floor and I was dancing and drinking. There was a set of AFCs around me so I went away from them, I didn`t want anybody to think I was hanging with them. I was pretending to be just listening and dancing with the music as if I didn`t care about anything else. Some times I don´t know if this looks as if I am gay or just a great listener.
I was wearing a Red lacoste shirt and black jeans with a big watch and my skull vans and a big belt. I believe in peackocking but I don´t like Mystery´s style, thats to much for me. But I think a red shirt is quite a good idea. Its really easy for girls to know where you are in case they are looking for you.
So while I was in the dance floor the two set that I saw earlier was near to me and two asians males came to dance around them. The HBs didn´t seem to pay much attention on them. And they were turning themselves into me. There was a point where the 8 was continually touching my arm with here back. THIS IS MY STICKING POINT. And I hate it
.This has happend a lot to me but I never know how to open this sets or HBs. There are nights where I get this chicks coming to me and I just don´t know what to say. That night at Cielo I was in the same situation with two more HBs and the same happend to me in Mexico (my hometown).
So as I didn´t know how to approach them I began to see how other people managed the situation. To my surprise no one did good at all. There seem to be many guys afraid or really shy, without confidence. Their aproach wasn´t Alfa.
What do you think would be better when they come to me: Grab them by the hand and make them do a turn so they jump into a hoop? or perhaps saying; ME: You are really good at that. HB: At what? ME: touching my self with your whatever
Any other recomendations? What do you think is the most Alfa thing to do?
Thanks
Smooth Agent