Hey all-I hope texting counts as field reports.
I met this smart, sexy woman my age who is very mature and a catch all around. I really want to date her. She works for the same temp agency I do and she gave me a ride home the other night. I was nervous because I always am around ladies that I am interested in on more than simply a sexual level, and I didn'nt plan on asking for her number, but she told me to take it before she dropped me off!
So I texted her yesterday thanking her for the ride home. She hit me back. we conversed. She said she had an interview for a promotional gig and I said with her smile she's a good as hired. It was a decent exchange of texts but I felt like I wasnt being funny enough, wasnt showing myself enough because I was nervous. She asked me what I was up to at that moment, I said I was about to ask her the same thing, and asked if she'd like to have dinner. She said she needed to sleep because of the am interview but we could rain check, and that it sounded fun. We texted a few more times then she said goodnight and "talk to you tomorrow".
Today I texted her to ask how the interview went. She returned. Todays exchange follows:
Her: Interview was good, how was your day?
Me: Alright, I just took care of laundry and errands, you know the exciting things in life.
Her: LOL! Yeah handle your biz pimping! (She is ghetto but smart and professional. She can switch between two personas, which I like)
Me: Hell yeah you know I got to get my hustle on or I got to get gone. I pimped out that laundry room.
Her: LOL! Your crazy do you smoke?
Me: Not anymore, I dont drink either. But I am good company unlike some sober people.
After that text I was second guessing myself, wondering if it was coming from the right place. So I followed up with:
Me: But I'll let you be the judge of that over dinner. (Tried to get a little more assertive here, expressing my interest clearly.)
Her: Haha just asking, I smoke on occasion.
Me: I love the smell of it though.
Her: Haha...yeah I really like the smell better than the high.
Me: (here's where I went for more cocky funny) Word. When I'm wealthy I want to have kilos of it laying around the house as air freshener.
Her: Word!!!! Me too! hahahaha
Me: (Here's where maybe I went a little too far with the same joke and being funny but she reacted well) Then when it gets too dry and starts to get all over the carpet we (notice I said we not I) can just bring it to the beach and have a camp fire. Best smelling campfire around ; )
Her:
Ok! Thats hot! hahahaMe: Word.
Her: Hey I got a tummy ache and I need to lay down for awhile, I'll hit you up later ok?
Me: Cool. Hope you feel better.
Her: Thanks!
The End.
I think that went well. I addressed some concerns I had and reacted well in my opinion. I expressed interest and seemingly made sure that she knew that we are not just becoming buddys but that I am interested in dating her. The only thing I can see thats missing is negs but she is smart and has no ***** shield so are they necessary.
It bugs me how I get when I am around ladies I actually like, because when it is just someone I just want to **** I am never nervous.
Thanks for input!
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