Background:
Went out with Prank and Rockstar a while back to scarletts. We did some stripper game and I played around with one in particular. I got a lap dance from her (against the rules I know, bite me) and then got her to give me a second lap dance half off. For the second one I had her stop and talk to me so she'd open up. I got her number after and made plans and that was that.
Played horrible text game with her to the point where I figured the set was closed.
Recently, during AFCAdam's bootcamp, I went back with a pivot of mine and ran into her. My pivot and I both got lap dances again from her and HBStripper basically poured out all her problems in life to me and all her drama opening up a lot. I told her I'm a lifestyle coach and I could help her and we agreed to meet up again.
FR:
Now originally we agreed on meeting up on tuesday. Tuesday came around and I sent her a text and she said she'd call me back soon...she never did. For the rest of the week I just left it alone and forgot about her, not one text. On next week's wed. I get invited out by my pivot Ana and her friends, I decline though cause I'm not in the mood. While chillin at home later on though I get a text from HBStripper and we chat a bit. She then tells me she'll be at hardrock and wants me to come...I figure easy meet plus I'll have social proof, done. I get dressed and head out.
Apparantly she's meeting up with her manager for his b-day. Now Ana and HBStripper are at two different bars at hardrock (slims and murphey's law). I meet up with Ana first and chill then head over to Murphey's. I see HBStripper and get greeted with a warm hug and the game is now on...
I immediately realize I'm in a bad situation...she knows all the strippers there and bouncers she works with, I don't know anyone. I see the possible scenarios running through my head and see the outcome of all the actions I can take, only time in field has lead to this. I realize I need to either get my group in here or seriously befriend hers. I excuse myself to get mine and they've gone to america's backyard...time to befriend.
I get back and she's playing a hard game testing me by giving me minimal attention and running back and forth among her friends. I just left my house, not in state, and no wings but I play back just as hard. I begin befriending the biggest guy there who is obviously her orbiter. Run respect with approval frame and have him qualifying himself to me. He knows I'm a threat though and wont allow himself to be fully befriended. Fine. I see one of her friends call out, we'll call her HBStripper2.
HBStripper2: Hey I need someone cute to take a pic with me!
Psych: Here take HBStripper, I'd do it but I don't know you well enough yet.
HBStripper2: I said someone cute...
Ouch. Honestly had no comeback to that. HBStripper goes to the bathroom and I decide to try again with HBStripper2. I don't remember how I reopened except that it was a complete banter war, but this time I was ready for it. She won the title for most random girl I've ever met though with a crazy energy. I finally win her over hard and HBStripper2 and I become really tight, I almost thought I might end up sarging her instead. HBStripper even gave me shit tests by saying we made a cute couple and wtvr. I then befriended the guy who's b-day it was and began opening the few adjacent sets until I was seriously working the entire room. HBStripper observed it all but I had limited interaction with her. However I DID NOT chase her, I did not show neediness, I handled the social pressure and won over her friends, I had a great time regardless of what attention she showed me. All of this was key.
The manager declares he's going to have an after party at his place. The logistic gods were with me this night for what happened next. HBStripper was high and drunk and couldn't drive...I offered to take her and she said that'd be cool. The manager also said he had to go to scarletts first so wait a while. Everyone then leaves me and HBStripper alone at hardrock...couldn't have asked for better.
We begin staggering around and tease each other with tons of kino with our arms wrapped around each other. Somehow the convo turns to how guys should be dominant or something. I explained most guys don't know how and it has to be done right. She asked what was right and I said this. I then threw her against a wall and kissed her. We broke and she looked at me funny...I figured I did something wrong, maybe miscalibrated...she then grabs me and gives me like the roughest kiss of my life I guess to show she's dominant to lol.
We stumble farther out by the parking lots but we still have time to kill. I hear music playing softly and pull her into me and begin to slow dance with her. I kiss her again...do some intense EC...then tell her just to rest and she puts her head on my shoulder. I felt like I was in some chick flick movie or something. After that we sat on a bench and talked...I think she was expecting me to escalate harder but for some reason I didn't. Maybe bathroom pull but it felt wrong to me.
We finally get in my car and it's back to teasing until we get to the party. At the party I befriend everyone again. It's true what they say about strippers btw, they all do heavy drugs. I didn't join in but geez. I just had a bunch of laughs with everyone, especially the manager and DJ and just had a good time. Near the end I began cuddling with HBStripper on the couch. She started rubbing her foot on my crotch to, I tried to rub my fingers on hers but she stopped me...strange though it might be from fear that others would notice. Party finally ends and I drive her back to her car at like 6 am. We park and talk about her life a little more and then she leans in and we begin kissing. This time though kissing in a meaningful way with some connection behind it...as opposed to before when it was just kissing for kissing sake. At the end she tells me I'm a good kisser and I say she's not to bad herself blah blah. We make plans to meet at Delano on tuesday along with HBStripper2. On my way home she calls me.
HBStripper: I wanted you to know I really had a great night tonight, I want to thank you for just being you.
Psych: Yea I had a great night also it was really fun
HBStripper: Yea it was, not a lot of guys would actually dance like that and I liked it. So yea thanks for just being you (she repeated this for some reason)
We continued this sweet type talk for a bit until she had a call from her brother and asked if she could call back and I said yes. As I was getting ready to go to bed I saw my call ring but I ignored it letting her think I was sleeping.
She lives in Kendell and I live with my parents in Ft Lauderdale so logistics kind of suck. However we'll see what happens. HBStripper2 lives in hollywood so I'll probably be hangin with her alot. HBStripper2 also texted me today saying "hola cool kid...jus wanted to thanku for chilling with me at murphy's...I owe you a wing job =)" (I told her she could be my wingwoman) then she immediatley sent another text saying "...Haha it's Stripper2 by the way"
Here they are with HBstripper on the right (my left) and HBstripper2 on the left (my right)
