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Author:  Jaybot [ Fri Oct 31, 2008 7:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Social proof, DHV and Wings Make the World Go Round

I feel there should be some sort of warning MTV style at the start of this, this will be a long FR but it is worth the read and was some of the most beautiful game I have ever played. Also the first K-close I think I will remember for a while.

If you are all sitting comfortably then I shall begin ..... The evenings festivities really began a few hours earlier when I got a new haircut, I then got dressed up with some tame peacocking nothing too fancy though. At this point I was feeling a million dollars. Also the fact I was on my home turf added to my awesome feelings.

So me and a few mates (one is Links my bro, pua and wing) hit a local club, it is a student night so HB's are guaranteed. When we arrive there is no shit set after set just standing around waiting to be opened (real kid in a candy shop stuff).
So first set (3 set, one 5 two 6s) I open fluff DHV then a song comes on and mother hen drags them away, bollocks. Don't think I could have done much here plus it was a warm up set anyway (put note on phone to ask about musical interruptions).

Second was a 2 set in the smoking area, a cute blonde and a brunette again fluff for a while make no attempt to close and they eject (finished cigarettes).

At this point I was feeling like writing off another night as a drinking night, baring in mind I have had about 2 weeks of shit nights where I have done awfully, most likely because I have been in a shit mood but all that was about to change.

Third up was a girl whose sister went out with my cousin, this meant I did;'t really need to open and instead decided to build rapport and attraction. I can't remember most of this as it was fairly uneventful, got IOI's and decided I could do better so put her as plan B, with a "I've got to go but I may come and find you later".

Fourth, gorgeous girl I have been trying to get with for years (an 8 with a great personality). Again because I have known her for a while I didn't need to open but was confident I had not been friend zoned, also my new haircut was in keeping with Jugglers ideas of moving out of the friend zone, as was my attitude. So I set about a Juggler-esque pickup, DHV like crazy, build rapport then began adding in sexual elements, nothing major but after a couple of minutes there was definite sexual tension and I was receiving major IOI's. Boom, I could have the girl I had wanted for years something stopped me, I think it was literally the third member of my conscience (the PUA, that kicks my ass any time I think in an AFC way) but whatever it was I realized I could have her and didn't want her ..... as much lol. So I made my excuses and got on my merry little way.

Set Five

One word, glory. Me and my bro spotted this set, what caught my eye was it was a split mixed set (4 people spread across an area, technically a mixed 2 and two 1 sets) and there were 2 good looking girls (maths was good, 2 HB's, 2 PUAs, 2 potential CBs). So I opened the blonde by herself, almost instantly the interruptions began first was the 2 set, I made friends with them and they left, then the guy from the 2 set came over to say he was leaving (WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO) again I make friends with him and get a hug off him lol.
Next up on the interruptions game were 2 off my AFC friends on a pure cock block mission, dicks. The first comes over and drops some AFC crap the girl shoots him down for me and turns to me with WTF eyes. Next up is just poor lol, she was dressed as a cat so had ears on, he comes over and tries taking them two or three times, I say wow how rude and he kinda wonders off hehehehhe.
Next up, The awkward guy, Come on down. He starts some bullshit conversation and begins fluffing she begins chatting (possibly out of politeness I don't know) so I turn and freeze her out, boom few seconds later she is taping me on the shoulder, another one down.

After this barrage of bullshit I get a chance to talk to her properly, I DHV by saying I am doing a music degree (literally her eyes lit up), we then chat about music and get onto musicals. At this point I try to form a real connection telling her I love musicals but I don't tell anyone, she instantly calls bullshit and asks my favorite, we have the same favorite (My Fair Lady) and the game is truly on. After a bit more fluffing I start getting IOI's, at this point I try something new out, I tell her I have to go for a bit but MAY be back later (the fear of losing something gives it value, think saw 3 lmao). I take a piss grab a beer and come back.

My bro and her friend take me aside and tell me she told them she loves me, checkmate. I go back and she immediately steps up kino (I had been running it from the word go) by asking me a question in a quiet voice, I say I can't hear her so she leans right in and we are cheek to cheek, sexual tension is unbelievable, our lips are centimeters apart (well played by that girl, FPUA's take note). It's go time, her friend came over at this point and started chatting, it was time to get rid of all interruptions so I mention a table that has just become free to the two of them (one person is easier to get rid of than 4 or 5 I figured). So we start walking to the table and her friend just walks off, ideal.

We arrive at the table and I instantly notice she has a camera tied to her belt, I say something like ooh cool a camera (it was a tad less 3rd world sounding at the time). So she hands it to me, first picture we get in close and take a pic, puppy dog eyes don't even come close to what was happening. I then said "That picture was alright but I think we could do better -triangle eye thing- lean in for the second and K-closed.

The next hour or so was just me and her bonding and kissing, I said I had to leave to go to uni the next day ( I did) and she said she was still down for a few days (she was visiting someone). She then said I shouldn't go back today and that I should hang out with her all day and she would drive me back the day after. It is about 5 hours out of her way and I have a party at my house tonight but I was really debating it, this was love.

I know I will get so much shit for that and everyone will be like "its just one-itis" but it wasn't, we both genuinely liked each other and talked about how we could make it work (4 hours between us). But yeah she is my perfect woman, smart, driven, funny, clumsy (don't ask), beautiful, we agree about enough to get on but disagree on enough to have fun. At the time I was even thinking I would give up the game, literally I have achieved what I set out to achieve.

Anyway, back to the story we are still on the couch and I begin using a little secret technique (I am going to master it and may tell the community then but I'm not sure I want every guy in the world doing it so maybe not), buying temp was through the roof, I was then about to escalate when her friend came over and said it was time to go, she said give me five minutes and literally as she finished saying it the lights came on, FUCK. So we begin walking out of the club, it is clear she has to go home so I grab her number and get one of those romeo and julliete kisses ( a friend dragging them home and you get one last kiss). Also her friend lets slip something around this time possibly something about a bf but thats a non-issue.

Also when chatting to my bro afterwards he said he blocked so many interruptions (about 9 got through, he thinks eh blocked a good 10-15), this was excellent practice and I would throughly recommend hitting on girls with annoying friends and bringing your annoying friends to all aspiring PUAs hehehe.

So yeah, that was my night in a freakishly big nutshell.

I would also like to thank all you guys literally every single one of you, from the "I told a girl to die in class, is this too harsh a neg" guys to the MPUAs, you guys make this community what it is and give decent men the choice and options with women they deserve as well as the techniques and confidence to become better people. Thanks :)

Author:  Links [ Sat Nov 01, 2008 1:34 am ]
Post subject:  All in an evenings work

Just repping for what was some absolutely solid game.
The number of times I looked across and saw the doggy dinner bowl look was immense, I was proud!

Also, holy shit I was kept busy! My winging needed a workout and I got one.

My favourite moment (other than your storming success...) was her two friends stood at the bar watching you two kiss, one moved to head over (god knows why)... Cpt. Wing to the rescue.

"Wow, do you girls want some popcorn? You're gaping at them! It looks to me like they're having fun, lets leave them talk. Come with me. :D "

Interupt avoided and congruence test in one. Naturally they followed ;)

Here's to the beauty of finally grasping social dynamics, here's to choice, here's to being our best selves and here's to all the guys who helped us get here. (SLA for me :wink: )

You better not stop practising... One day i'll be calling in the favour!

Respect.
Links

Author:  Jaybot [ Sat Nov 01, 2008 1:55 am ]
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mate me and you need to get on top of this monster I discovered if we can perfect it there is no reason we can't destroy any girl in any club. I feel like christmas day.... fuck. Time to enter the dark side damn freaky NLP guys

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