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| Author: | VARescue [ Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New guy needing some guidance |
Hey guys - hope everyone had a good evening hunting last night! I'm still new to a lot of the skills that are talked about in these forums, but I have to say - I'm impressed. As I've read through posts, books and watched vids I've found myself getting pretty excited about what I'm learning. I think the part of it that I'm most enjoying is that I'm watching my confidence grow - and its amazing how that confidence spills over in to other areas of my life. So, anyway - a field report combined with a plea for help! =) Yesterday, I'm out of town on business. Between a couple of my appointments I had some time to kill so I went to a coffeeshop in the area. I was there, working on my laptop (okay - reading through the forums) when this gorgeous woman comes on the scene. Now, being that I'm in a large city and about an hour from home, I figure - what the hell - I'll see if I can't run a little day game. I really was just wanting to see if I could strike up a conversation and keep her interest for a while - having not been through all of hte material, that was my only goal. Well, as I'm packing up my stuff to go - I manage a number close on this girl! My ego was stoked (but I kept cool in the moment) and she asked me how often I get into town. I mention to her that a few friends were planning on coming up the next day (now today) to hit a few of the local clubs. Yes, a group of us really are planning on coming up for fun. She suggests that maybe we can catch up with each other and we part ways. I come back to my tiny town - that really only has a few sports bars and one club. I don't plan on running a lot of game locally (or at least not until I'm proficient at it) because of the size of town...it's easy to build reputations and it would be harder to escape the costs of mistake. But, last night, as were out at our favorite club, I find I'm doing quite well. I've updated my fashion from what I've read here, I was feeling good from my number close earlier that day and, because I was trying to avoid running any game, I was also doing plenty of pushing away. Of course, being a small town, I was never rude about it - so, essentially, I was flirting and rolling off to just about everyone that came up. Well, shit - it worked. Of course, I've got advantages locally as I know most of the barkeeps (so I can walk up to the bar and get my drinks even before the hotties that have been waiting in line), the waitresses all love me (so I get plenty of hugs and "so glad to see yous" and a group of friends were out - so I had plenty of social proof. One girl in particular stays close all night and we ended up dancing a little out on the dance floor. At the end of the evening one of my buddies, who was hoping to hook up with a girl that he had been hitting on all night, suggests an after party at my place. Well, the little gal that I had danced with was one of the first to say that she "was in." So, we all come back here and, by the end of the night, I kiss closed the girl from the club. Now I'm feeling really good - and can only imagine how its going to be as my understanding of this stuff grows. BUT - here's my dilemna. During the after party last night, my buddy mentions that a group of us are heading out of town to go clubbing tomorrow night (now tonight) and invites everyone to come along. My kiss close expressed her interest and asked if she could come along and my buddy (trying to help me out - lol) says of course! Now, a couple of other tidbits. The coffeeshop girl text messaged me before I went out last night to make sure she knew which night I was coming in to town. At one point in the evening the club girl was asking if I was a bit of player or if I just had a lot of friends (having seen how many people were talking to me) and I tell her that I'm not a player. It was a bit after that when the make out session commenced. That's all the further we went last night. So, now I don't know what to do. I'm hoping to meet up for day 2 with the coffeeshop girl, but I know I'll have problems if the club girl comes along. They're both cute - and I really don't want to burn bridges (at least not yet) with either of them. They live an hour away from each other, so in most cases this wouldn't be a problem except that they're both planning on spending time with me tonight. I figure I can either A) tell coffeeshop girl I'm not gonna make it tonight (that town is so huge we'd likely not run in to each other). B) tell club girl that I'm not sure that we're going so she stays in town. Or perhaps even suggest that we're planning on styaing the night at a friends house and staying out of town through the afternoon tomorrow and that we're trying to keep it down to just the four of us....or something. C) take club girl - invite coffeeshop girl and see what pans out. THIS idea I think is bad. Especially since we're all planning to take on car out of town tonight and she'd have to ride back with me. So, I could use your guys' help. Suggestions comments and critiques are VERY welcome! |
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