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| Author: | Art [ Thu Mar 08, 2007 1:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Shit Tests |
so this chick enters the room. I notice shes wearing running shorts. i make a comment about racing her after class. After class she gets my attention to say cheerio and i remind her about our "race" and end up walking next to her . she teases me by false starting a sprint and we get a good convo going. Its time to take our separate ways and i ask her: what are you doing this weekend? she: im studying. me: so you wont have time for one little rondezvous?(i give her a playful puppy dog face) why dont i get your number and we can go get coffee or something. she: Tell you what, next time we have a test we can study together. me: that sounds great, We can get a good headstart this weekend. she: i cant give you my number(grinning shyly?) me: (in a lighthearted/demanding voice)well, why not? she: im dating someone(stil grinning faintly) me: im not asking you for a date.(i hand her a business card and she writes it down). My question is this: how can you tell theyre giving you a shit test? What things to look for/ Thanks guys ciao, Art |
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| Author: | Sweetheart [ Sat Jun 02, 2007 9:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | random thoughts |
Art, I think you just fell into her frame man when she suggested you study together and you agreed. The only thing I can think of is to reframe the situation by saying something like "hey if u wanna study with me Im gonna have to charge you missy...my rates are very expensive and im not sure you can afford me" then lightly kino and give a playful smile. I hope that helps. All the best man. |
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| Author: | 3hell [ Sat Jun 02, 2007 8:16 pm ] |
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also asking for "coffee or something" can sound boring. that was definitely a frame battle, which was the shit test. also you wouldnt really need her number if you just arranged a time and place to meet up. |
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| Author: | Mr.Smooth [ Sat Jun 09, 2007 2:28 pm ] |
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HB: We should study! You: Hehe, geez your a keen little trouble maker. How do I know you don't have alterior motives. HB: Oh, there are no alterior motives. You: Sure, sure, I've heard that one plenty of times. Then move on to eliciting values! The moment you move on to eliciting values. Cheers! |
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