LOL! That's an awesome trick! Can't wait to use it. Ooooh tingly...
Anyway, here's what I think:
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Me- Hey, are you our waitress or some nice girl who wants to bring us food and drinks?
Her- I'm just the nice girl bringing you food and drinks.
She knew you were hitting on her when you threw that line out there at her. She didn't seem to mind, which is a good sign. Either you were the first one that day to come up with something witty to say to her (most guys hitting on waitresses are less...subtle) and thus immediately DHV'd yourself, or she was just being a friendly waitress.
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Me- Thats so cool!
----Go up for a high five and I move my hand out of the way and go back to my food.
Her-You're mean!!!! (playfully hitting me and smiling.)
Me- Yes... I am. 
Quote: --Little later
Me- Hey, you're gonna play a quick game with me.
Her- Okay
Me- Have you ever played 5 Lies? (Run that perfectly)
DHV again, well done. Compliance on her behalf too. Good job.
Quote: --Little later
Me- I'll make a bett with you.
Her- What's that?
Me- I'll bet you five dollars that I can poke my head through my fingers without breaking grip.
Her- Okay... wait, which head!!!!!????
Me- The one attached to my neck. I knew you were a dirtyy girl. 
--So I run that and she welches on the bet; I neg her for that.
She did however choose to take the sexual innuendo you hid in that routine. Which means she's interested, or at the very least flirting. This is an IOI.
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--I did screw up ESP
Ok it's hard but resist the temptation to unload all of your PUA tricks at once, not only does it not leave you with much in the bag for the second and third dates, it also creates the "Dancing Monkey" syndrome. You're fun, you're entertaining, you're also putting a lot of effort in doing stuff to amuse her. Enough, now's her time to amuse you. This is where you get her to qualify herself to you. Fair's fair, let her show you some bar tricks she's learned.
Quote: So I'm about to leave. I did do some kino before this, so I touch her on the arm and talk to her to try to close.
Her- Sorry, I can't give you my number...the managers will get on to me. But are you going to be in the area later?
Me- Nope, hadn't planned on it yet.
--So I leave my number for her. (Broke my own rule.)
--I think I got enough IOI's, but I still haven't gotten a call, so I could be wrong. I got a lot of smiles as I kind of ignored her when I was done playing.
This is the second best outcome. The first of course is to number close her. Be persistent, neg and try the "us against the world" thing again. In fact in sarging waitresses and hired guns, try to get that spin in as soon as you can. The conspiratorial hook is deadly, they will break rules for you.
In all honesty, she will probably not call you. Not unless you were the most interesting guy she met that week. It's usually up to the man to make the first call. Then again, if she's really interested as her words seem to suggest (asked you about a possible alternate time bridge on her own, always a big IOI), you could scoop her up handily by going back in a few days. She'll be more comfortable then, enough to break the rules for you by writing her number down on the back of your check or on a napkin.
Oh, don't wait too long or she will forget the encounter. The feelings might stay a little longer (as much as a few weeks) but she will forget your conversation and other little details, and you'll basically have to repeat your performance to get her to reassociate those emotions back to you.
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