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| Author: | cain25 [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 9:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Path to MPUA (step 1) + renewal (reporting Field results) |
I reposted it here from the PUA Lounge, because i think it will be more appropriate. In future i will post my next planing steps and then field reports here (Field reports Section) OK, I'm starting this post to encourage myself to take steps in learning the Pick UP Art. Who read my other posts know that I'm recovering after a 3 year serious relationship with a HB 10+. Well, Enough about that... So the first step will be to go out tomorrow with my friend. Go to the club sober (well that will be unusual) and open some sets.. seems easy. I will try direct approach and no canned material to see how i can function on my own Smile After i will post how the night went. If i will not chicken out tomorrow (AND I WILL NOT) then i will create a step two. I think that in this case bad result are better then no results, so the purpose of the first step is just to open some sets without expecting any results (like phone numbers) Path to MPUA (step 1) + renewal (reporting Field results) Ok, now its 1.30 am in my country and i have just returned from my first sarge. I wriing this today so the memories are fresh, so here we go First me and my friend went to a bag to eat. My fried has some eye contact with one waiter, she smiled to him, but the other one served our table. She was HB 6 and i turned on my sense of humor and made her laugh several times. Before we left my friend wrote his phone number on the check and after a few minutes she called him but holded it for very short time only so we could see the number where it was called from and call her back. The funny part was that she did not know who's phone number was it. HE called her after 15 mintes and it became aparent that was the phone of the bar, we asked for a waiter and they gave us the wrong one first, after we got the right one my frined had a short conversation with her: Hi Hi When you are finishing you job? About 12 Maybe we can hangout after that I have a boyfriend, After that my friend was really disappointed, told her good bye and dropped the phone. I told him he should have gone on talking, that is was probably a shit test and so on. My friend got really interested in why the fuck did she called us if she had a boyfriend and i made joke that she was hoping for me but after hearing HIS voice she "remembered" Smile she had boyfriend. We both laughed and went through the city hoping to find some girls And this was the time I stared to chicken out. We passed like 10 sets of girls ranging form 6-8.5 and i was always finding that there were something wrong with them to make an excuse for myself not to approach them. Then we saw a perfect set, girls were waiting for a taxi and they were like 8.5 and 9, absolutely gorgeous. We passed through them and i just could not open my mouth. I felt like shit during that time and the approach anxiety was killing me. Actually i had an anxiety all that day knowing that i made a promise to myself to open some sets and i will have to do it. Ok now to more productive part. We went to the club and i was showing the best body language i could possibly show and tried to make eye contact with girls. Had several IOI but again chicken out to open. Anxiety was killing me, i felt it even when there were no girl around. finally i went through a HB 7.5 with cute classes and she maintained eye contact with me and even turned her head maintaining eye contact when i was going through. BUT I CHICKEN OUT AGAIN. I was really disappointed with myself at that time and like after ten second when i was going down the stairs i see this HB9 and without thinking just say HI, she turn her head as she was going upstairs and replies with Hi and gives me a big smile. I say where you going and she says she is going to dance, i tell her ill meet her there and continue walking downstairs. Now i know that i should have continued but at that time receiving such a positive feedback was so up uplifting that my approach anxiety drooped like 3 times. I felt wounder full. I felt full of energy to open new sets. Next i opened a HB8-8.5 siting all alone at the table that was giving IOI to me, telling her : you are not having to much fun do you? She gave me a big smile and said not really, i asked her if she wanted to dance, she said she does not and i said: see you then and gave her a smile. I know i could have made it better but it felt wounder full again, having positive response was awesome. The approach anxiety was GONE COMPLETELY. I was amazed how easy it was. Next i flirted with a go go dancer asking her to come to dance on our table, she responded with a smile and joked about it costing 50 LT (out money). I smiled at her and offered her a candy bar instead that a clown working there had gave us before, she laughed and gave some serious IOI while dancing on the bar table. I opened some more sets HB 7+ and also received many IOI form girls below HB6, it all was short but i was having fun, we joked about girls with my friend, i opened a two set with a joke and moved on, a single girl with an ironic compliment: beautiful pants (the were chemically red, it looked awful, but the girls was HB8). I started to feel comfortable, as if i owned the club. It was first time in about two years when i was in a club sober without my ex girlfriend and opening girls seemed 10 times easyer. Before we were leaving the club i went to the go go dancer i was flirting before and told her i have a deal to offer: "SHE gives me 50 LT and i allow her to come with me to my house and do i private dance to me", my friend exploded laughing, the girl hit me with her hand gently and laughed, i did not expect any result from this it was a cocky joke and i left right after it saying goodbye to her and receiving some more IOI. the night was awesome, i did what i have planned and i am proud of myself. I opened like 8 sets, got positive response from most of them, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY I DID NOT FEEL ANY APPROACH ANXIETY AFTER THE SECOND SET. I DID NOT BELIEVED IT WAS POSSIBLE. GUYS FOLLOW THE 3 SECOND RULE. IT IS AWESOME Tomorrow i will think about a step 2 and for now goodnight |
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