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I have been dating this girl for a while now. She ended a 8 years relationship recently and its been around 2 months that we are seeing each other. We both evently want to be a couple but she wants to take her time.

Since nothing is official between us and we haven't had sex yet.

I told myself that I would keep daing other girls at the same.

Saturday, at a party one of my friend knowing that nothing is official about me, he said he would introduce me to someone, to which I didn't refuse. Yesterday, while I was with the girl I was dating this friend called. He was on speaker, so she was hearing. I figured why he was calling, he was calling to invite to a dinner to meet that this girl he was talking about. I didn't cut the call cuz I wanted to see how she would react. I wanted to see how much she cared about me.

When the called ended, she was pissed. She said wtf how come your friend is calling you to introduce you to a girl, doesn't he know that your seeing me.

You didn't made it clear to him that you were seeing me and that you didn't wanted to meet any other girl. I told her that I didn't made it clear cuz it's not even clear with me, cuz she wasn't expressing her feelings to me so I can't know for sure. Then she said, you should know that actions speak louder than words. You should be able to gauge my feelings now. After a while we changed subject, we talked about a lot of different stuff and we make out. So after the incidence we stayed together for another 3 hours.

Author:	johnk12 [ Tue May 09, 2017 5:42 pm ]
Post subject:	Recovery after you got caught
Hi guys! I have been dating this girl for a while now. She ended a 8 years relationship recently and its been around 2 months that we are seeing each other. We both evently want to be a couple but she wants to take her time. Since nothing is official between us and we haven't had sex yet. I told myself that I would keep daing other girls at the same. Saturday, at a party one of my friend knowing that nothing is official about me, he said he would introduce me to someone, to which I didn't refuse. Yesterday, while I was with the girl I was dating this friend called. He was on speaker, so she was hearing. I figured why he was calling, he was calling to invite to a dinner to meet that this girl he was talking about. I didn't cut the call cuz I wanted to see how she would react. I wanted to see how much she cared about me. When the called ended, she was pissed. She said wtf how come your friend is calling you to introduce you to a girl, doesn't he know that your seeing me. So I went straight I told her to truth. I said I knew why he was calling cuz he had told me saturday that he wanted to introduce me to someone, that I could have ended the call but I let everything flow cuz I wanted to see how she would react. Then she became even more angry cuz she said that means that you weren't clear with him when you told him that you were seeing me. You didn't made it clear to him that you were seeing me and that you didn't wanted to meet any other girl. I told her that I didn't made it clear cuz it's not even clear with me, cuz she wasn't expressing her feelings to me so I can't know for sure. Then she said, you should know that actions speak louder than words. You should be able to gauge my feelings now. After a while we changed subject, we talked about a lot of different stuff and we make out. So after the incidence we stayed together for another 3 hours. Do you guys think I should bring the subject back? To reassure her that the way she reacted confirmed me her feelings for me and I don't have any doubts anymore. One of my friends suggested that I should tell her to put herself in my shoes, meaning that: what she would if she were in love with me and I would tell her ``Hold on with your feeling while I reach yours then we can go forward`` . He even said I should go as far as telling her that if she can't decide herself maybe she will never be ready. What do you guys think?

Author:	JackZero [ Tue May 09, 2017 6:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Recovery after you got caught
You know that this was needy behavior on your part, right? It's needy because you were trying to force a reaction out of her. She told you that she wanted to take her time, but that's obviously not what you want. Then to explain exactly what you were doing shown that you are capable of immature behavior. If you are in a place of wanting one thing from a girl and you're sitting around waiting for her to get to where you are, you are not valuing your time or your value. Why not just meet the girl that your friend told you about? She may be better than the current girl that's wasting your time. Quote: He even said I should go as far as telling her that if she can't decide herself maybe she will never be ready. This is solid.

Author:	Arch Stanton [ Tue May 09, 2017 9:39 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Recovery after you got caught
Quote: I have been dating this girl for a while now. She ended a 8 years relationship recently and its been around 2 months that we are seeing each other. We both evently want to be a couple but she wants to take her time. Translation: You tried to have the "lets be exclusive" talk with her first, and she said no. Always let the woman bring this up, as it's feminine energy. Focus on your goals. Quote: Since nothing is official between us and we haven't had sex yet. What the fuck? None of this matters then, and you aren't dating her. Quote: I told myself that I would keep daing other girls at the same. You're not dating her. She's not your gf. Quote: Saturday, at a party one of my friend knowing that nothing is official about me, he said he would introduce me to someone, to which I didn't refuse. Yesterday, while I was with the girl I was dating this friend called. He was on speaker, so she was hearing. I figured why he was calling, he was calling to invite to a dinner to meet that this girl he was talking about. I didn't cut the call cuz I wanted to see how she would react. I wanted to see how much she cared about me. Do you know how to tell when a girl cares about you? She unzips your pants. Quote: When the called ended, she was pissed. She said wtf how come your friend is calling you to introduce you to a girl, doesn't he know that your seeing me. WTF? You've never had sex. Quote: You didn't made it clear to him that you were seeing me and that you didn't wanted to meet any other girl. I told her that I didn't made it clear cuz it's not even clear with me, cuz she wasn't expressing her feelings to me so I can't know for sure. Then she said, you should know that actions speak louder than words. You should be able to gauge my feelings now. After a while we changed subject, we talked about a lot of different stuff and we make out. So after the incidence we stayed together for another 3 hours. sounds horrible. Quote: Do you guys think I should bring the subject back? No. Quote: What do you guys think? I think you should game other women, immediately and blow this one off.

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