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Author:  BoozeClues [ Sat Jul 09, 2016 6:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Didn't Turn Up The Heat

I'm new to the game, still getting over approach anxiety and what not, so I'm still in the learning and experimentation phase. I am more than happy to share my failures to others and hopefully get some feedback.

I was at a bar last night which coincidentally a shit load of kids that went to my high school go to, and I saw a girl that used to be in my class with this other blonde HB 8, who I didn't know. I started talking to the girl in my class about memories and how she had this stupid goal of wanting to try every drug in the world. Both girls were laughing and the energy was high. The HB 8 was involved in the convo and we started talking. The girl in my class hooked it up and left us alone. The convo was going great, very natural, we even played the "guess my nationality" game. Then we went into conversation about nationalities and traveling and shit like that.

I know what went wrong... I stayed on normal convo for too long. I fuckin felt it, like a meter that was telling me to change gears. I did't up gear and the car stalled... I felt that she lost interest and all she needed was an excuse to leave. It was just a matter of time, then all of a sudden another person came into the bar that she knew and people rushed over to greet him and she said "OMG I have to go say hi!" I knew it was already over so I just let her go I said "Yea of course, go ahead."

I know I know I'm still learning on how to save myself and shit, but I got what I needed from that attempt.

Any advice on how to escalate the conversation and turn up the heat? With a smooth transition of course.

Author:  prince_prince [ Sun Jul 10, 2016 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Didn't Turn Up The Heat

The best way to escalate is to add kino to the interaction. Light
touches here and there and eventually adding to the kissing part.
Its true that in the convos with chicks you will sense a window that
is open for a short period of time and if you dont advantage of it...


Thent he girl de values you and moves on. But I would just add kino!
Other then that, sounds like the interaction went well!

Author:  BoozeClues [ Tue Jul 12, 2016 3:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Didn't Turn Up The Heat

Thanks mate! That's probably what it needed, I'll be sure add that next time.

Author:  prince_prince [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 11:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Didn't Turn Up The Heat

Ok sweet! Keep me updated!

Author:  sunblaster [ Wed Jul 20, 2016 8:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Didn't Turn Up The Heat

Double on physical escalation, great way to show your confidence and gauge girls interest, if she doesnt pull away and reacts positivly you are in the game.

If not sure what to kino you could awlays grab boobies and ask her if they are real! :P

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