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my intentions are a girlfriend (not merely sex) .
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Yeah I know this sounds like a junior high school date to some of you
Gosh Opey I hope you packed the PBJ's and some soda pop. 
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| Author: | darkie_jackal [ Wed Jun 22, 2016 10:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdhand |
Required reading: field-reports/got-2nd-date-operation-bu ... 97557.html Yes this is the same girl I have a "Oneitis" (not really a 1itis b/c Im going in on other girls) as I discussed in previous posts. So Date #4> Picnic at Park Objective: to move out of FZ---> attract and develop a romantic interest. So had a picnic on a blanket in a nice shady area, I brought a candle, and I placed chocolate covered watermelon in her mouth. KINO ATTEMPT: she had a bandage on her hand so I pretended to look at it, and use it as an opportunity to hold her hand--> she blocked me and said "We're friends" (thats ok I just try again next time (plow) ) She chatted her head off as usual---> I asked to see some pictures on her phone and managed to position myself next to her , then arm around her on blanket... My objective was to run some speed seduction patterns on her, but I couldnt remember any patterns, so I made some pattern on the fly: "I remmeber when my Ex drew a picture for me, I could FEEL THE ROMANTIC CONNECTION growing" (yeah I know I need to work on my pattern skills) - thats where I felt I was lacking in the delivering of patterns --> but this girl just interrupts and talks and talks and talks. - yes I did run some Incredible Connection patterns on her before... Then we went to walk around the area i) KINO ATTEMPT: we had to cross these traintracks--> so I took her hand and was like let me help you over the tracks--> she accepted and let me hold her hand , then when we got over the tracks she was like "ok I dont need you to hold my hand anymore!" (whats a good rebuttal?) ii) then when there was this short pathway, I was like "I better hold your hand, so you dont fall off" so now I will use any excuse to hold her hand (walking accross the street etc). I noticed when I talked to her about the dates I had with other girls, a little bit of a sad expression came accross her face ( a sign of interest) Yeah I know this sounds like a junior high school date to some of you, but my intentions are a girlfriend (not merely sex) . Howould you of done the date differently in terms of (kino) escalation? BTW , remember this is not a oneitis-----> I am attempting to go in on other girls!! Anyone can recommend some good falling in love patterns? I would like to run October man, but that is quite advanced for my repertoire. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 8:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
Dude, can you comprehend that this woman is not sexually interested in you? You keep pursuing a "relationship" with a girl you haven't shared any form of intimacy and that alone is stupid. But not only that, she's not even interested in said intimacy. She said it to your face. Multiple times. And yes this is fucking oneitis because no man in his right mind would do what you're doing. "Talking" to other women does not disqualify oneitis. You can be talking to whoever you want, you're still obsessing, investing time, and "plowing" (being a creep) with her. You don't "plow" lack of interest. You maybe plow LMR. You "plow" when you know she wants you to plow. SHE DOESN'T. |
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| Author: | darkie_jackal [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 5:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
Quote: Dude, can you comprehend that this woman is not sexually interested in you?
You keep pursuing a "relationship" with a girl you haven't shared any form of intimacy and that alone is stupid. But not only that, she's not even interested in said intimacy. She said it to your face. Multiple times. And yes this is fucking oneitis because no man in his right mind would do what you're doing. "Talking" to other women does not disqualify oneitis. You can be talking to whoever you want, you're still obsessing, investing time, and "plowing" (being a creep) with her. You don't "plow" lack of interest. You maybe plow LMR. You "plow" when you know she wants you to plow. SHE DOESN'T. So I just date other girls on the side.. Thank You for taking the time to reply. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 6:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
Quote: my intentions are a girlfriend (not merely sex) .
Oy vey.Quote: Yeah I know this sounds like a junior high school date to some of you
Gosh Opey I hope you packed the PBJ's and some soda pop.
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| Author: | JackZero [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 6:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
Quote: So I just date other girls on the side.. What does this mean? How are other girls on the side?
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| Author: | darkie_jackal [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 8:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
Quote: Quote: So I just date other girls on the side.. What does this mean? How are other girls on the side? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 8:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
Quote: I will be flexing on other girls
Will it leave a stain? WTF does that even mean?
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| Author: | JackZero [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 8:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
Quote: Quote: Quote: So I just date other girls on the side.. What does this mean? How are other girls on the side? |
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| Author: | darkie_jackal [ Thu Jun 23, 2016 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
This means that I will be flexing on other girls while I am friends with her.....like I did in the bar two weeks ago.....im not her bf....so Im free get it?[/quote] "Girls on the side" usually implies that you have a girlfriend and the others are not serious. It makes me wonder if you are still trying to pursue this girl.[/quote] Right now I will be pursuing any girl that I find attractive ok |
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| Author: | darkie_jackal [ Sat Jun 25, 2016 4:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
This means that I will be flexing on other girls while I am friends with her.....like I did in the bar two weeks ago.....im not her bf....so Im free get it?[/quote] "Girls on the side" usually implies that you have a girlfriend and the others are not serious. It makes me wonder if you are still trying to pursue this girl.[/quote] Oh and she let me hold her hand just a little last date (I know it means nothing to you guys) lol so maybe we are making 10% progress? She's real coldblooded, I tried to rub her back on the blanket, and she told me keep your hand on the other side lol .......what would you guys say if a girl told you this on a date? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sat Jun 25, 2016 4:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
LOL this thread p.s. Creepiest signature, ever |
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| Author: | darkie_jackal [ Sat Jun 25, 2016 7:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
Quote: LOL this thread
p.s. Creepiest signature, ever You nevered answered my question.... .......what would you guys say if a girl told you this on a date? |
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| Author: | darkie_jackal [ Sun Jun 26, 2016 2:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
more replies please |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Jun 27, 2016 8:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
Quote: what would you guys say if a girl told you this on a date?
I'd probably question what the fuck am I doing with my life.
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| Author: | readysalted [ Mon Jun 27, 2016 10:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DATE #4>Picnic, same inexperienced girl> this time holdh |
I'm guessing this thread is a troll, or maybe somebody very naive when it comes to game. I'm no expert but seriously, you took a girl on a date with a blanket, candles, fed her melon!? That's the kind of thing you do with a girlfriend, and you two are not a couple! So you're pretending you're a couple while she's simply along for a ride. Tell the girl you think you'd kick her ass at bowling, or go fcuk around at an arcade, or get drunk together. Tell her you can pretend to be her gay friend, and she can help you pick up girls, while you help her pick up guys. Truth is, that few guys would approach because they'll see she's taken, and those that do you can cockblock. When it comes to girls however you can control the frame, pull them in, play them off against eachother, people watch, try and get them to kiss etc. Worst case scenario is that she takes no more interest in you, but you had more experience in bars, gaming chicks, and with her as your safety net. You'll probably come away with a few numbers, and can work on those. The take home message here is stop focusing on her like she's the prize. Stop pursuing her. Start using her. She might well develop feelings for you when she see's you confidently killing it with other girls, and if she doesn't boo hoo. You've used her to help you game chicks so you're still winning. |
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