Look, never try to forcefully shove your attractiveness down girls' throats.

It's fine to say cheeky things like "Yeah you know I'm cute". I encourage being playful.

However what I strongly dis-encourage is things like "Yeah lots of girls say I'm fit". At that point you're just being tryhard, especially with someone you just met. It's also a sign of insecurity if you need to verbally convince her that you're "good enough".

Also if you're gonna approach and ask for numbers it's probably smart to have your phone on you. That should be common sense.

Aside from all this, instead of asking us what to do the work for you, try coming up with a text on your own and asking for an opinion on that.

Maybe the'r repulsed by the oversize bold type,

Just call her bro.


Didn't like how overly complimenting you were being, but I also do know its not what you say its how you say it. When a girl says " She'll think about it" she's not actually going to think about it, all she means is "I would like you to invest more into me first". Your returning to her 20 mins later was just that; more of you investing. So when she says " Maybe after I see you a few more times" she's again saying "After you invest a little more".

However, you have to know your worth as well; and you can not be shy about challenging a girl with what you believe your value to be. 2 mins of investing can be 2 hours of investing for someone else. Its all about what you and they perceive your value to be. When a girl says " I'll think about it" i'd probably look at her like she was crazy and say " Just give me your phone. I'll put it in and text myself"


So in nutshell:

1) When you are it, you don't have to say it.

2) Take control: Challenge a woman who is challenging your value. If you allow her to dictate your value by making you wait, you'll end up waiting in the friend zone.

Just call her bro.


Didn't like how overly complimenting you were being, but I also do know its not what you say its how you say it. When a girl says " She'll think about it" she's not actually going to think about it, all she means is "I would like you to invest more into me first". Your returning to her 20 mins later was just that; more of you investing. So when she says " Maybe after I see you a few more times" she's again saying "After you invest a little more".

However, you have to know your worth as well; and you can not be shy about challenging a girl with what you believe your value to be. 2 mins of investing can be 2 hours of investing for someone else. Its all about what you and they perceive your value to be. When a girl says " I'll think about it" i'd probably look at her like she was crazy and say " Just give me your phone. I'll put it in and text myself"


So in nutshell:

1) When you are it, you don't have to say it.

2) Take control: Challenge a woman who is challenging your value. If you allow her to dictate your value by making you wait, you'll end up waiting in the friend zone.

Hey everybody , she just replied back saying " we can hangout on Saturday" I hope its in the afternoon, b/c I am busy in the evening...

Wow , I am sooooo nervous, yes I did read RC's guide.... does anyone know any good threads for first dates?

I plan on taking her to the lake, their is a private lookout tower where I usually like to makeout with girls...


What tips you guys have?

I dont want to blow this I need to fuck this girl!!!

The most important tip for you is to chill out. You're way to emotional over a girl you don't even know.

You need to relax and have some composure.

I know, but I am kinda desperate...... something I need to address in the sticky point forum...

cant stop thinking about her.

She will pick up on that most likely, it's a DLV for sure. Do your best to fake it till you make it (confidence wise) but at the same time don't get so overboard and try hard like you have been. Balance, friend.

You mean just act , like I am willing to walk away at any time?