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Approaching family sets! Counter-intuitive! Field Tested.
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Author:  DKeys [ Mon Feb 22, 2016 8:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Approaching family sets! Counter-intuitive! Field Tested.
One of the epiphanies I've had this last year is that approaching girls with their families has a lot of advantages. I've done this several times and almost always successful (mostly girls which were travelling with their parents and that went out to party at night to the bar area).

I know that at a first glance one may look at the set and be frightened by the presence of the mother and the daughter, but here's a list of advantages of approaching family sets sets:
  • 1. Nobody else approaches those sets. So, less competition.
    2. Her bitch shield is not as high. Because she is behaving as a family member, the dynamic is very different from that of going out with her friends rejecting guys to display more social value.
    3. Just by talking to her you are demonstrating a huge value, because you were the one who got the guts to do it while her father was there!
    4. Less flakes. Why? Because her family is the best set to win in terms of social proof. It is an open ticket you give her to be with a guy without feeling like a slut (after all, you won her family good grace first).
    5. Plenty of opportunities to qualify her. Just the fact that she is able to go out with her parents and enjoy should make you able to put her in a different category than the empty minded Instagram addicted ones.
There is one huge disadvantage that is logistics. It is not likely that she is going to leave with you that night if she is with her family. But you can easily get permission to take her out the next day.

Finally, here's a cool opener to use in such situations:

PUA: "Hi! So if I talk to you your father is probably going to be upset, right?" (Demonstrate courage)
Her: laughs (she might playfully agree or tell you it's ok
PUA: "OMG, he's starring at me right now [he will be starring at you]. Don't look" (Build conspiracy with her and a desire to be a rebel.

I hope you find this useful. I can share a couple of situations with examples from such approaches if you'd like.
Thanks!
Author:  Crypton [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 3:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching family sets! Counter-intuitive! Field Tested
Very interesting indeed. Takes some guts and skill.

But logistics is not just a small matter, it's a very crucial part of the game.
Author:  Tidal_ [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 6:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching family sets! Counter-intuitive! Field Tested
Quote:
2. Her bitch shield is not as high. Because she is behaving as a family member, the dynamic is very different from that of going out with her friends rejecting guys to display more social value.

From personal experience. No bitch shield, but you get an amped up anti slut defense. to which point, u must dhv on stroids to isolate even momentarily. why the fck wuld you put energy into such high effort low return process? This may one day be a niche "game", but till then....
Author:  DKeys [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 6:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching family sets! Counter-intuitive! Field Tested
I'm not necessarily putting effort into it, brother. It just happened a few times, and I decided to post what I learned from it :)
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