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Author:  DMVA100 [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 3:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Friend zoned during LMR
Got a girls number offline. No texting. Was out of town for 2 weeks. Hits me up at 10 to meet at a nearby bar on Sat.

Walk in, place was packed. Saw her and said when she's done with her drink we are going back to my place. Not much convo. We leave and walk to my car. She says she's not sure about this because she is dating someone. I ignore and heavy thigh kino and drive 2 mins to my place. Lead her up, stop right outside the bedroom and start making out and grabbing her ass and pulling her hair. Pull her into the bedroom and reinitiate. She's like I'm not sure about this. Ignore and throw her onto the bed and continue kissing her neck and rubbing her pussy with my knee. Wouldn't let me undress her. Tried to kiss again after I took my shirt off and she's like I'm sorry, you're a nice guy bit I can't do this. Pats me on the shoulder and then gets up and bolts.

Um wtf? Was I supposed to escalate MORE ruthlessly? I think also for a weird reason that maybe too much making out initially made it seem to 'emotional' for her since she was seeing someone else.

She was properly screened and was leaving town in 3 days. This whole ordeal happened in 20 mins.

???
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 4:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friend zoned during LMR
Should have just backed off for a short break. Agree with her then re-apply. Two steps forward, one back.

Doesn't mean you have been "Friend Zoned" just her ASD kicking in.
Author:  DMVA100 [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 4:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friend zoned during LMR
Quote:
Should have just backed off for a short break. Agree with her then re-apply. Two steps forward, one back.

Doesn't mean you have been "Friend Zoned" just her ASD kicking in.
It's funny though because the more often I have presisted without backing off I get the bang, but once I do the standard 2 forward 1 back, they start to get turned off and physically remove themselves.

An interesting tactic I've used before is to not ever talk at all during escalation. Say nothing just lead with body. Ignore all questions or things she says.

Just seems a catch 22 sometimes because if you try to make her comfortable than its weak, but if you persist ruthlessly it becomes unattractive and needy. A shitty, thin line.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 5:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friend zoned during LMR
Not all are the same, like snowflakes, once thought that no two were the same, it's been found there is little variation, but there is variation just the same.

Adapt to the situation.
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 5:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friend zoned during LMR
I thought you solved this problem last week by escalating from behind?

You dumb fucking psycho. Every thread is the same. Are you sure you're not a robot?

If

you

respect

women

and

do

not

treat

them

like

meat

with

a

hole,

they

make

it

easy

for

you

- Bell end
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 5:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friend zoned during LMR
All of his posts come off a little rapey.
Author:  Finished [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 8:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friend zoned during LMR
You loose so many girls.

RAPPORT.
Author:  DMVA100 [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 10:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friend zoned during LMR
Quote:
You loose so many girls.

RAPPORT.
You are right. I lose about 30-40% this way, but all the same, this all happens with 0 investment on my end. Granted it isn't really game it's just being ballsy and not giving a fuck, and as Peb noted, being a psycho. Much of this MOA is due to the area I live in and there being literally 10 guys per girl, so if you don't get it in fast you're toast. When I traveled back home to rural MA, I slayed a new chick 6 out of 7 days of the week because the dynamic was so different and my methods blew out the competition.

Whatev
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 10:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friend zoned during LMR
But if the girl is in your presence, it is irrelevant if there is 10 guys to 1 girl. If you are more cool, connect, rapport and all that as opposed to a horny impatient forceful rabid dog = more 'Slaying'

I just don't get your logic that you have to fuck them with in the 1st 20 seconds of meeting them.

Now I am not saying you should wait to the 3rd date, if you can get it then take it. But if you're getting all this resistance from the girl, that is concrete direct feedback to chill and slow things down a little the same night.

Point is, you're looking for a tactic for the cure. I am suggesting to focus on the prevention.
Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Thu Dec 17, 2015 2:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Friend zoned during LMR
Cool story bro.
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