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Author:  jemry [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 8:44 am ]
Post subject:  sexual date, then she flakes or I f**ked up ?
I am so excited and annoyed so much. I started gaming hard only since july. There was problems with approaching, getting numbers and now dates.... seems like 'lay' is like carrot on a stick, always close but almost never can get it.

Anyway, that was a tinder date, the girl was from states in London. I knew that americans are friendly but had no idea that that much. Girl had no problem with escalation, to be honest she even started by grabbing my arm when we headed to first venue.

We went to the salsa bar, where they had cheap shots (no way I will spend a lot of money on her haha) had fun, did couple push- pulls, strawberries sequence, hand reading. But what ever I was doing, seems like a girl was hooked from the first few seconds. Sitting on sofas, i put my arm around her, look at her for to build even more tension and went for a kiss. No resistance at all, we changed venue, kissed on the way couple times, grab her hand, told few future projections, how awesome would be our wedding in Vegas etc...

Second venue: Told her she is buying now, since she is complying I wanted to see how far a can go.
She did, I told her to surprise me with a drink then she might get something 'tonight', she smiled and kiss me.
I am thinking, this is so great. !
Then later on Im doing one more push pull saying we won't sleep tonight because my dick is small and Im a shy guy (maybe I bit silly) but again she just laughed.

Since I couldn't take her mine place, I tried to figured logistics at her, she told me that she has to probably go (however, if I a had place close by, she would definitely agree). I asked her if she is coming back to empty room or her roommate is in, she responded with: ''she is probably out'' In my head I was like ''perfect''

I told her I want to be a gentleman and walk her home, she comply again. We kissed more on the tube, walked her home, kissed a bit more at house hall, slip my hands to feel her ass which was cold and amazing, haha but it turned out her roommate is in....ahh damn it.

Either way, we exchange few text same night, she was saying to me that I made her wet and horny and next time she will make sure that nobody is home.

This is where twist begins !

During a date, I joked that I might match with her roommate too.... she of course laughed.

Day later, I have ! haha, I just exchange very neutral message saying that is so funny they have same taste in man.

Told my tinder date that and joke that I is too soon to have 3somes.

Since then she gone silent. Don't know if that is the line I pushed too far or she went jealous, or maybe thinking that we are progressing too quickly into sexuality and I act needy....maybe

I have no idea, 2 days gone, send very causal few texts but she keep ignoring them.

Any ideas ?!
Author:  Dragula [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 10:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: sexual date, then she flakes or I f**ked up ?
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Since I couldn't take her mine place, I tried to figured logistics at her, she told me that she has to probably go (however, if I a had place close by, she would definitely agree)
I would say this is the main issue here. Always have a place to bang. There is always Airbnb.com to book an insta room. I know London is expensive but take girls close to where you live. Logistics are probably the most important factor. Her place isn't always an option, more often that not actually. You need to be in control of logistics.

She was ready to bang and you didn't figure it out. She is now back on tinder swiping other guys. She might be flying back to USA soon...Then next minute her room mate is telling her that you're hinting at a threesome. She knows it's a joke but no where to bang so she might asewell ignore you.

Logistics my friend
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