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| Author: | Yaghaur [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 4:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Eye game |
The night started, playing drinking games with roommates at home, leaving to the club afterwards. Eye-contact was awesome. I have been looking around exceptionally much, dancing lightly, keeping good overview of the club. This way, I found openable girls by returning glances at them from far away, looking at them just for so long that they would become interested, look away, look again, laughy and flirty. This happened with two (groups of) girls, while I was together with male and female roommates. Both groups ended moving in on me!!! One group sat down near me when I took a seat in the lounging area, and we exchanged flirty looks for just about 2 minutes until they felt that I was not going to make any further moves. They walked away. (My roommates were already making love gestures.) Around 4am I was feeling a little bit done for the night. A big drawback of an entire night of alcohol; I was feeling slightly nauseous, tired, hungry, even had to take a crap. Haha can't get much worse, so I wanted to leave. Still dancing around my with my roommates, who didn't want to leave yet, I was acting all hot and happy and still on top of this eye contact game. The second group of girls had one girl coming to me and try and open me, offering me a beer. I rejected her beer, which should be no problem. But all that was said, was: "Do you want a beer?" "No thanks." Really, that was all! (I was really distracted by the reaction of my female roommate, who I used to fool around with and have feelings for. Her watching me getting attention from other girls should be a good thing. It displays my value and I still want to fool around with her. Just don't try this yourself, I'm happy to have the extra experience, but it complicates life in a very energy draining, sometimes painful way.) Body language and facial expression were significant here. All people looked shocked when I rejected this nice beer gesture. Now I'm feeling ashamed of myself, start overanalyzing and am thinking: "Damn, I should have said; no thanks, very nice of you but I'm not thirsty, you neither right haha, bla bla how do you know each other, ok nice to meet you, I'm leaving in a minute, give me your number so we can talk later". After all, it was a rare effort of a girl approaching a man; feminist behaviour which should be rewarded imo. Well, better next time, when I'm approached on one of my brighter moments during clubbing. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 8:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Eye game |
When a girl says "let's go back of my place for a coffee" she doesn't neccassrily mean for literally a coffee "Can I buy you a beer?" Usually means "yagaur, can you please chat me up at the bar I want to get to know you" But you simply just got wasted and cock blocked yourself because you haven't even made a cold approach in your life. Imagine if you were to be decent at cold approach and know how to handle yourself in that dynamic? THEN when a girl opens you and asks to buy you a beer, you would have a petty solid idea of how to take it to the next level. Eye contact can be a powerful thing, but only when you don't use it as excuse to keep a divide in between you and the girl. To be good with eye contact, you should learn to cold approach at the least. Doesn't make sense to do it in reverse otherwise you will stay stuck at staring people hoping people they will be drunk enough to open you and do all the work. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 12:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Eye game |
When you make eye contact and she looks up - She thinks she's above you. Expert approach When you make eye contact and she looks left or right - she's indifferent. Novice approach When you make eye contact and she looks down- she's in submission. Easy approach When you make eye contact and she hold stares and doesn't look away - she wants to bang. Game over approach. |
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| Author: | Yaghaur [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 1:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Eye game |
@PEBBLE, good to see you react confrontational, I might learn something here. I'm working on: -Not being drunk. (Have to start choosing non-alcoholic drinks when not playing drinking games) -Going out with suitable wingmen or alone! (Challenging, never went alone before) -Stop having this frustrating oneitis on my roommate and start displaying value by closing on some other girls -Inner game (Stop making excuses for myself) -Cold openings. Just go for it and see what happens! (I feel uncomfortable with multiple friends paying attention when I approach girls, especially when they push me to. If I don't go for it directly, they will think I'm struggling or in doubt. It's so easy and tempting to look like I'm just not interested, and do nothing. Have to get over myself.) When a girl offers you a half full beer bottle after several eye contacts, I think it means she wants to get to know you, plus she is too drunk/nauseous to drink it up herself and wants you to save her. @Eddie Fews Nice details. Case 4 and 2. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 7:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Eye game |
I'm gonna assume there is some weird 2nd world or eastern European shit going on here because this post is bizarre. |
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