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| Author: | SubNova [ Sat Jul 18, 2015 12:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Sarging last night! Natural! Some Advice? |
Went out sarging in the town I'm attending college at in Oregon. Using natural game I'm often called a natural. I'm only going to share the two I found interesting and really wish I could have made it further. Case 1: A group of us were out at the bars for a friends 24th birthday. The bar/club we were at is the closest thing to a club in the town. Other then us only 4 other people have come in and out of the bar. When we came in and the cute bartender, brunette, dressed classy, and had tattoos (my weakness). Checked our I.d's and mine is a little bent and messed up. She said looks like your card has been through some shit. I responded by telling her I was the one who went through some shit jokingly and got a really genuine laugh. I was given an IOI by the bartender who was giving me sexy eyes. I then left my group walked up to the bar and asked her how here summer was going? She responded with "going well just been really busy working two jobs and taking care of her animals" (What was she looking for here) I then asked her about the types of animals she has and she referenced them as her children so I made a lame joke about how between her 3 children they have 12 legs... and she laughed. She then asked me about my summer and blah blah blah All the time she was making one of her favorite drinks for me and she messed up the first one gave it to me on the house so I gave that to the birthday boy. While she poured me another one. Should I have teased her about messing up? I then took my drink joined my buddies hangout and have a good time. So I want to know how I could have built the relationship a little more. She was playing with her hair and doing hair flips behind the bar. So how could I have escalated this and number closed? Or do you have any tips for when I go into that bar and shes working next time. Case 2: This was after the previous bar where we went to a more crowded spot that was a little louder. One of my lady friends was meeting us at the bar. I walked up and sat next to her. While talking to her another one of our friends Kristen came up and began a conversation with me. Then a Not HB sat at the bar next to me but, I began a natural conversation with her and her friend who was sitting at a booth just waiting for her friend to get the drink came over and sat at the bar to. When that happened I realized it. I had the room and was the object of attention & attraction. I've been able to do this well, but am just now starting to pay attention to how I can actually control the SPAM of the whole bar. |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Sun Jul 19, 2015 5:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sarging last night! Natural! Some Advice? |
Nice, natural game is much more fun and effective than anything else. You don't have to tease her much for messing up the drink because she gave it to you on the house. I would use her more for social proof and preselection than anything else. Make her be your best wing women when you bring girls over to the bar. Start getting familiar with her by seeing her often, building commonalities, etc. |
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| Author: | SubNova [ Sun Jul 19, 2015 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sarging last night! Natural! Some Advice? |
Whoh thanks Will! That actually makes so much sense I cant believe I didn't think of it before. Knowing the attractive female bartender and being able to have casual conversations with her will go way further with the observing women then all the guys at the bar ogling her goodies and trying to flirt with her. Good tip thanks bruddah. |
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| Author: | EnsoNytes [ Mon Jul 20, 2015 7:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sarging last night! Natural! Some Advice? |
I don't quite follow the distinction here about using "natural game". As opposed to what...scripted material? A bartender's job is literally to flirt for money. That being said, you asked how to you get her number. If you want her number...why not just ask for her number? |
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