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Author:  Cupid_007 [ Sun Jun 07, 2015 6:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Getting Banned from Stores for Approaching Girls (+VIDEO)
Primer How to Not Get Banned

According to the Towson Mall's list of rules "Any activity that disrupts our pleasant family-oriented shopping environment" is forbidden and grounds for expulsion. Technically speaking being a pickup-artist is soliciting and even consider to be "sexual harassment" by some (ahem feminazis). Because daygame has not yet become mainstream, it is still a gray area and to call it a "disruption" is debatable: you are at the mercy of the store manager's judgment.

Having access to highly-populated stores is crucial for a pickup artist both for the concentrated number of females within small spaces and for the wares they possess. Therefore it is imperative that one take precautions to minimize the risk of getting banned.

The good news is that if you open a group of girls successfully, onlookers will assume that you are old friends. However, sometimes the girl that you attempt to open is very anti-social, easily intimidated and even hostile. If you sense this, you must leave immediately because no matter how friendly you are - it may be close to impossible to fix the situation. A single complaint to security can get you "Do not approach in this store again or we will have to ban you."

To avoid these type of girls it is best to avoid approaching direct but rather use a preopener to screen her first to see if she is social or not. Ask her for directions, transition with an observation and then pretend you just noticed how beautiful she is.

The other obvious guideline is to not approach staff and near staff. Be like a ninja approaching in the shadows. You'll have to be careful because sometimes staff is dressed like ordinary civilians. If you have camera equipment, ensure that it is super covert because I had a friend who got banned from the mall (with his picture taken). Avoid doing mass approaches - only two or three per store (unless you're going to remote area and you don't care if you get banned). Do not leave the store immediately after the approach or it will be obvious that you only came to hit on the girls. And finally, it helps to be carrying a shopping item while approaching.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txhZWwJEvPA
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Author:  Steyn [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 3:45 pm ]
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I think she did that because you approached her when her mother was there and she complained so as not to appear slutty or whatever in front of her mom. You should have opened her mom first, she kind of smiled when you tell the girl you are shy so maybe you had her approval. Or maybe she didn't speak english and thought you wanted to fuck her when you said you are so fucking cute hahaaa. That is a really strong way to approach btw and she probably couldn't handle it.

Anyway, its unfortunate that it happened.
Author:  Noone [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 4:18 pm ]
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That girl was not worth any amount of hassle.. I think that's what I find most amusing about this.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 4:59 pm ]
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Look for lone women in daygame. It's a huge social obstacle to try to do anything while they are with people, let alone family. You make these threads every so often of you in field getting a bad reaction, you gotta start avoiding these scenarios.
Author:  Versalis [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 12:59 am ]
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:lol:
Pro-tip: Don't hit on girls who weigh more than you.
Author:  Versalis [ Tue Jun 09, 2015 1:30 am ]
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Look for lone women in daygame. It's a huge social obstacle to try to do anything while they are with people
I don't do "daygame", but this sounds horribly impractical. I don't see a lot of girls out by themselves. They're with other people(usually other women) about %90 of the time. How do you even find say, 3-4 women to approach in an hour, if you're ruling out ones who are with friends? I rarely notice lone girls out. Especially in places like Best Buy.
Author:  Versalis [ Wed Jun 10, 2015 7:41 pm ]
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Yes I do have a peach of an ass. Thank you :)
Author:  Dirk Debonaire [ Thu Jun 11, 2015 9:40 am ]
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I like doing my thing at nightclubs because you don't need to pretend that you're not on the prowl at them and you can usually be pretty direct without consequence. However even at nightclubs a couple of times girls have complained to security and I have been kicked out once (years ago). That's nowhere near a lot though.

I would like to do more day game. Prowl around in a supermarket, looking into women's shopping baskets to try to determine if they're single or not whilst carrying a basket myself only containing condoms and cucumbers. :wink:
Author:  Cupid_007 [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 9:11 pm ]
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I think she did that because you approached her when her mother was there and she complained so as not to appear slutty or whatever in front of her mom. You should have opened her mom first, she kind of smiled when you tell the girl you are shy so maybe you had her approval. Or maybe she didn't speak english and thought you wanted to fuck her when you said you are so fucking cute hahaaa. That is a really strong way to approach btw and she probably couldn't handle it.

Anyway, its unfortunate that it happened.
I should have indeed first gained the mom's approval before moving on to the girl. This was my mistake.
Author:  Cupid_007 [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 9:13 pm ]
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a basket myself only containing condoms and cucumbers. :wink:
hahaha
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I like doing my thing at nightclubs because you don't need to pretend that you're not on the prowl at them and you can usually be pretty direct without consequence.
yea that's nightgames main advantage. you can skip all that time-consuming complicated indirect stuff and get right to the point - and it won't be weird or strange
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However even at nightclubs a couple of times girls have complained to security and I have been kicked out once (years ago). That's nowhere near a lot though.
I wonder why this happened. 0 . o
Author:  Cupid_007 [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 9:15 pm ]
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Look for lone women in daygame. It's a huge social obstacle to try to do anything while they are with people
I don't do "daygame", but this sounds horribly impractical. I don't see a lot of girls out by themselves. They're with other people(usually other women) about %90 of the time. How do you even find say, 3-4 women to approach in an hour, if you're ruling out ones who are with friends? I rarely notice lone girls out. Especially in places like Best Buy.

I hate to admit it but Versalis is right. Girls by themselves is a rare occurrence during daygame (although more common than in nightgame). If a girl goes out by herself during the night, then she is looking to bang and avoid any judgmental friends. Although lone wolves are the easiest, it's still important to learn how to handle 2 sets or more because otherwise you'll be losing out on 80%+ of girls.
Author:  Cupid_007 [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 9:16 pm ]
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That girl was not worth any amount of hassle.. I think that's what I find most amusing about this.
True that. :(
Author:  Cupid_007 [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 9:16 pm ]
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:lol:
Pro-tip: Don't hit on girls who weigh more than you.
Too bad I didn't know how she looked like until after I approached her. It was one of those blind approach scenarios.
Author:  Cupid_007 [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 9:18 pm ]
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This turned out to be a lot worse than I unanticipated.

This is proof that you should almost never go direct during the daytime without first screening if the girl is social and receptive to talking to strangers with a simple pre-opener like asking her for directions or whatever. If she's receptive, then you can instantly switch to direct with "You're actually really cute. What's your name?"

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Author:  Dirk Debonaire [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 11:40 pm ]
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However even at nightclubs a couple of times girls have complained to security and I have been kicked out once (years ago). That's nowhere near a lot though.
I wonder why this happened. 0 . o
The girl felt uncomfortable with my presence I guess. Earlier on in the night I talked to her and part of the conversation went something like this:

Me: Would you like to come home me?
Her: I'm meeting up with a friend later.
Me: So maybe later then?
Her: Yeah, maybe.
Me: Well, I'll leave you to have a think about it. See you later.

It turned out that her 'friend' she was talking about was actually her boyfriend. So there I was watching them a bit (probably with an annoyed look on my face for having been lied to), not trying to make it obvious though, and before I knew it I was out the door.

Women tend to beat around the bush sometimes. Like for example they will give out their phone number even though they don't really like the guy who asked for it.

I observed an interaction at a nightclub not long ago which I found interesting and believe went like this:

Dude asked girl for her number. She said she had a boyfriend. Then later on the girl made out with some other guy and I believe she gave him her phone number. Then the original dude came back up to the girl and said 'I thought you said you had a boyfriend'. She said something and while the dude's back was turned she gave him the rude finger.

Now you have to take points away from women for dishonesty but I think in this case it was kind of justifiable as the dude was acting like he was somehow entitled to her and didn't want to respect the fact that women have a right of choice of what partners they want just as much as guys do.
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